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Add You - Face to Face Negotiation
When the Job Search is Over, be Sure to Say ThanksUsing a job acceptance letter when offered a position shows true professionalism. It is a way of saying “thank you” to the person who hired you, and giving them assurance that they made the right decision. You have presented yourself to them as a professional with your resume, cover letter, reference sheet, salary history, letters of recommendation, follow up note, and any other personal marketing materials you’ve used while job hunting. You went out of your way to make sure that the interview went well, and probably did your homework on the company before going in for that first interview. Now using a job acceptance letter will be a capstone on all your work, and perfect the positive professional your audience introverted or extroverted?
A. Extroverted people:
- Love to communicate
- Are talkative
- Involve others
- Tend to be public people
- Want face-to-face contact
B. Introverted people:- Keep their feelings inside
- Listen more than they talk
- Like to work solo
- Tend to be private
- Use memos and e-mails over face-to-face communication
III. Is your audience motivated more by inspiration or desperation?
A. Desperation-motivated people:- Try to get away from the
Top 10 Mistakes Entrepreneurs Make Before They Even StartSo you want to start a business. You have an idea. Lets say you want to be a carpenter. You print some brochures, some business cards, and take out an ad in the Yellow Pages. You pay $600 for a website and a domain name that tells everyone about your amazing credentials and experience. You distribute your fliers at a local grocery store. And then you wait. And wait. And wait…Nothing happens. But, that’s what everyone does, isn’t it? Print out some brochures, tell everyone how great you are, and wait for the money to roll in.Stop right there. You have just made the top 10 mistakes entrepreneurs make.Mistake # 1: First, being a “carpenter” is too general. There are a million carpent In our age of ever-expanding communication possibilities, researchers have been drawn to answer the question of which communication mode is most likely to lend itself to successful negotiation. Although the answer is undetermined, Face-to-face communication has been proven to have a greater possibility of alleviating miscommunication. When you're in person, you are more apt to pick up all the nuances of the exchange. That way, you will be better able to gauge what the other party is thinking and to determine the direction in which the negotiating is headed. For the same reasons, it is also easier to create and maintain rapport. If there is already a fair amount of tension in the air, however, negotiating by phone can take the edge off, can provide breathing room and can minimize the effectiveness of any pressure tactics that may have been employed. E-mail's main advantage is that both parties have control over saying exactly what they want to say and how they want to say it. Since there is no ebb and flow to live conversation, the involved parties can keep the floor as long as they want. On the flip side, e-mailing can tend to make the negotiating parties less restrained and more impulsive in their communication. This rashness isn't always a bad thing, but it definitely can be if tensions exist. One study found that abrupt and unmannerly exchanges occurred 102 times when negotiating via e-mail as opposed to only 12 times when negotiating face-to-face. Understanding Personality Directions The more you understand personality directions, the better you will be able to customize your negotiation tactics. A personality direction is the way in which we lean most of the time in terms of the way we act and react to most stimuli. We hate to be boxed in and categorized, but the reality is, most of the time we are predictable. Sure, people aren't going to be 100 percent predictable all the time, but the more discerning you become, the more you will see how predictable individuals really are. Each individual's personality direction will dictate how you customize your message. When you analyze personality directions, ask yourself the following questions:
I. Is your audience mostly logical or emotional?
A. Logical people:
- Think with their heads
- Go with what makes sense
- Are persuaded by facts, figures and statistics
- Rely on past history
- Use their five senses
B. Emotional people:
- Think with their hearts
- Go with what feels right
- Are persuaded by emotions
- Rely on intuition
- Use their "sixth sense"
II. Is your audience introverted or extroverted?
A. Extroverted people:
- Love to communicate
- Are talkative
- Involve others
- Tend to be public people
- Want face-to-face contact
B. Introverted people:
- Keep their feelings inside
- Listen more than they talk
- Like to work solo
- Tend to be private
- Use memos and e-mails over face-to-face communication
III. Is your audience motivated more by inspiration or desperation?
A. Desperation-motivated people:
- Try to get away from the
Why Do We Measure Performance, Anyway?Why do we measure organisational performance? The first answers that pop into your head might be:* you can't manage what you don't measure* what you measure gets done* we have to be accountable* they have to be held accountable* they told us toThese aren't the answers to the question this article asks. The reasons why so many organisations - particularly high performing organisations - measure things are more authentic, more fundamental and more motivating than those listed above.To avoid knowing too lateAt a government agency executive meeting I attended, participants were evaluating whether an end of year revenue target had been met. No it hadn however, negotiating by phone can take the edge off, can provide breathing room and can minimize the effectiveness of any pressure tactics that may have been employed. E-mail's main advantage is that both parties have control over saying exactly what they want to say and how they want to say it. Since there is no ebb and flow to live conversation, the involved parties can keep the floor as long as they want. On the flip side, e-mailing can tend to make the negotiating parties less restrained and more impulsive in their communication. This rashness isn't always a bad thing, but it definitely can be if tensions exist. One study found that abrupt and unmannerly exchanges occurred 102 times when negotiating via e-mail as opposed to only 12 times when negotiating face-to-face.Understanding Personality Directions The more you understand personality directions, the better you will be able to customize your negotiation tactics. A personality direction is the way in which we lean most of the time in terms of the way we act and react to most stimuli. We hate to be boxed in and categorized, but the reality is, most of the time we are predictable. Sure, people aren't going to be 100 percent predictable all the time, but the more discerning you become, the more you will see how predictable individuals really are. Each individual's personality direction will dictate how you customize your message. When you analyze personality directions, ask yourself the following questions:
I. Is your audience mostly logical or emotional?
A. Logical people:
- Think with their heads
- Go with what makes sense
- Are persuaded by facts, figures and statistics
- Rely on past history
- Use their five senses
B. Emotional people:
- Think with their hearts
- Go with what feels right
- Are persuaded by emotions
- Rely on intuition
- Use their "sixth sense"
II. Is your audience introverted or extroverted?
A. Extroverted people:
- Love to communicate
- Are talkative
- Involve others
- Tend to be public people
- Want face-to-face contact
B. Introverted people:
- Keep their feelings inside
- Listen more than they talk
- Like to work solo
- Tend to be private
- Use memos and e-mails over face-to-face communication
III. Is your audience motivated more by inspiration or desperation?
A. Desperation-motivated people:
- Try to get away from the
Useless Resume ObjectivesWhat’s wrong with an objective on a resume? The problem with objectives on resumes is that a typical objective is self-centered and self-serving; therefore, it is useless. Instead of an objective, use a power statement.Let me illustrate what I mean by giving examples of both objectives and power statements. Here is a typical objective, one that HR personnel see on top of resumes all the time:“Customer Service Representative position allowing me to fully utilize my skills and attributes and providing professional advancement opportunities.”What did this objective tell me? The above objective communicated to me basically nothing but for the sake of this case study here are a few po ating via e-mail as opposed to only 12 times when negotiating face-to-face.Understanding Personality Directions The more you understand personality directions, the better you will be able to customize your negotiation tactics. A personality direction is the way in which we lean most of the time in terms of the way we act and react to most stimuli. We hate to be boxed in and categorized, but the reality is, most of the time we are predictable. Sure, people aren't going to be 100 percent predictable all the time, but the more discerning you become, the more you will see how predictable individuals really are. Each individual's personality direction will dictate how you customize your message. When you analyze personality directions, ask yourself the following questions:
I. Is your audience mostly logical or emotional?
A. Logical people:
- Think with their heads
- Go with what makes sense
- Are persuaded by facts, figures and statistics
- Rely on past history
- Use their five senses
B. Emotional people:
- Think with their hearts
- Go with what feels right
- Are persuaded by emotions
- Rely on intuition
- Use their "sixth sense"
II. Is your audience introverted or extroverted?
A. Extroverted people:
- Love to communicate
- Are talkative
- Involve others
- Tend to be public people
- Want face-to-face contact
B. Introverted people:
- Keep their feelings inside
- Listen more than they talk
- Like to work solo
- Tend to be private
- Use memos and e-mails over face-to-face communication
III. Is your audience motivated more by inspiration or desperation?
A. Desperation-motivated people:
- Try to get away from the
Creating Competitive Edge through Continuous InnovationOrganizations around the world have claimed that they are ‘innovative’ businesses as they are creative (Papers4you.com, 2006). However to gain a competitive edge, it is imperative to realize that innovation always implies one step ahead of creativity where later is only an essential component of innovation. Creativity is merely an ability to combine ideas in a unique way or to associate ideas in uncommon manner , however innovation on the other hand is the ‘process’ of taking a creative idea and turning it into a useful product or service ( Robbins & Coulter, 2002). Such process involves inputs like creative individuals, organization and groups that can carry transformation through creative process an our message. When you analyze personality directions, ask yourself the following questions:
I. Is your audience mostly logical or emotional?
A. Logical people:
- Think with their heads
- Go with what makes sense
- Are persuaded by facts, figures and statistics
- Rely on past history
- Use their five senses
B. Emotional people:
- Think with their hearts
- Go with what feels right
- Are persuaded by emotions
- Rely on intuition
- Use their "sixth sense"
II. Is your audience introverted or extroverted?
A. Extroverted people:
- Love to communicate
- Are talkative
- Involve others
- Tend to be public people
- Want face-to-face contact
B. Introverted people:
- Keep their feelings inside
- Listen more than they talk
- Like to work solo
- Tend to be private
- Use memos and e-mails over face-to-face communication
III. Is your audience motivated more by inspiration or desperation?
A. Desperation-motivated people:
- Try to get away from the
Five Steps to Successful Sales NegotiationsMake Each Sales Negotiation Successful.While there are a number of approaches used by salespeople, successful negotiators know the power of a collaborative approach, with gains for everyone. They know they need to see things from the other person’s perspective, to work jointly with the client to create agreements that truly satisfy the critical interests of everyone involved.Five Steps to Successful Sales Negotiations.1. Do Your Homework.
Successful sales negotiators have a learning mindset -- they are continually curious and open to new insight. They continually strive to understand the client company and the people involved in approving the deal. Successful ne your audience introverted or extroverted?
A. Extroverted people:
- Love to communicate
- Are talkative
- Involve others
- Tend to be public people
- Want face-to-face contact
B. Introverted people:
- Keep their feelings inside
- Listen more than they talk
- Like to work solo
- Tend to be private
- Use memos and e-mails over face-to-face communication
III. Is your audience motivated more by inspiration or desperation?
A. Desperation-motivated people:
- Try to get away from the problem
- Are stuck in the past, are afraid of repeating mistakes
- Avoid pain
- Want to get away from something
B. Inspiration-motivated people:
- Work towards a solution
- See a better future
- Are motivated by pleasure
- Want to move forward, have vision
IV. Are your audience members or prospects assertive or amiable?
A. Assertive people:
- Consider results more important than relationships
- Make decisions quickly
- Want to be in control
- Are task-oriented
- Don't waste time
- Are independent
B. Amiable people:
- Consider relationships more important than results
- Are friendly and loyal
- Like to build relationships
- Are great listeners
- Avoid contention
- Are nonassertive and agreeable
Summary
Persuasion is the missing puzzle piece that will crack the code to dramatically increase your income, improve your relationships, and help you get what you want, when you want, and win friends for life. Ask yourself how much money and income you have lost because of your inability to persuade and influence. Think about it. Sure you've seen some success, but think of the times you couldn't get it done. Has there ever been a time when you did not get your point across? Were you unable to convince someone to do something? Have you reached your full potential? Are you able to motivate yourself and others to achieve more and accomplish their goals? What about your relationships? Imagine being able to overcome objections before they happen, know what your prospect is thinking and feeling, feel more confident in your ability to persuade. Professional success, personal happiness, leadership potential, and income depend on the ability to persuade, influence, and motivate others.
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