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Add You - Ground Rules for High Self Esteem: Part 2
If you are not happy, you need to get that fixed. If you are not rich, you are not happy. Seems like a bold statement to make, doesn’t it? How many millions of people are doing a job that they just hate? My guess is that that number is probably too high to count and too scary to even consider. How often do you dread Monday because you believe not only is this an awful day in itself, but also that you will have four more beyond Monday that you will also have to face. I know how you feel; I was like that for a very long time. I don’t want to go back? Do you want to really stay there?If you took longer than five seconds to answer that question, then you are not really ready to do what it takes to make the difference in your life. When you are so ready the question will barely be out but you will already be answering it with a resounding “No, I don’t want to stay here”. You will be open to hear the whisper of change and feel the faster beating of a joyful heart. You will be wi
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good
The primary objective of your New York personal injury lawyer is to focus on protecting your rights and entitlements when you are unable to defend yourself. When an accident occurs and you suffer serious injuries, a lawyer can help you claim for damages or pursue legal actions to recover compensation that you are entitled to.What New York personal injury lawyers can doInsurance companies are required by law to reimburse you with any expenses that were incurred during an accident, but there are technicalities that need to be satisfied. For example, the filing of no-fault benefits needs to be done within 30 days, or benefits could be reduced substantially or totally lost. Your New York personally injury lawyer will make sure that you will not be bullied by the insurance company and that you receive the compensation you deserve. There are New York lawyers who are on standby 24 hours a day to take your calls and answer any inquiries you may need.Costs of hiring a
1. How can I be as confident as so many other people?
2. Isn’t it true that if I accomplish something of value I’ll feel better about myself?
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable “being in love” with someone else?
4. How does the “mirror dialogue” really work in raising self esteem?
THE ANSWERS
1. How can I be as confident as so many other people?
First, please stop comparing yourself to other people, because when we do that we are not valuing everyone’s inherent spiritual Divinity, as we are all equal. Second, when we compare ourselves to others, somehow we usually end up on the lower side of the spectrum.
If other people are radiating supreme confidence, they are usually following their own truth, and really don’t care about what other people think, how other people view them, or what other people say about them! They are living life according to what is true for them on the inside, and that is displayed in supreme confidence on the outside.
So live that way! Be the REAL you! Say and do what is true for you. Bring out your highest and best self at every opportunity. Follow what you really love in life, and live from your heart. There is nothing that can overcome a pure heart. When you are true to yourself, and you are true to others, sharing, expressing, and living your truth – you will feel a great deal of inner confidence, and then you can share how YOU are so confident with others!
2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final moment was not filled with so much joy. Additionally, how can you live your life for one accomplished moment?
When you win the Oscar, the next day that moment is behind you. If you are constantly chasing goals to feel worthy, please stop chasing, and really start enjoying every moment of what you are doing! THAT is where they joy is. It is NEVER in the final moment, because that moment passes – even if one moment is fantastic, it still passes. So the key is to really savor each MOMENT of your life – that's where all of the treasure is – in this NOW MOMENT, and NOT in another point in time.
You will feel much better about yourself when you really start ENJOYING who you are, and each moment of your life. That is when you will begin to feel all that you really are – right now.
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good t
Is it really possible to become a professional FOREX trader and make money in just 14 days?The answer is yes, and here we are going to show you how to do this in simple steps.One of the most inspiring stories I ever read was when veteran trader Richard Dennis took a group of people with no trading experience and taught them to trade in just 2 weeks.The result was a group of trader nicknamed “the turtles” who went on to become some of the most successful traders of all time.Richard Dennis taught 3 key principles to his students:1. A simple technical method, they could easily understand and therefore have confidence in to trade.2. Rigid money management techniques to preserve equity.3. The mindset to follow the method through losing periods with total discipline.Working smartThe emphasis was on working smart not hard, to achieve trading success with no filler.So lets look at how you can do the same taking the abo
So live that way! Be the REAL you! Say and do what is true for you. Bring out your highest and best self at every opportunity. Follow what you really love in life, and live from your heart. There is nothing that can overcome a pure heart. When you are true to yourself, and you are true to others, sharing, expressing, and living your truth – you will feel a great deal of inner confidence, and then you can share how YOU are so confident with others!
2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final moment was not filled with so much joy. Additionally, how can you live your life for one accomplished moment?
When you win the Oscar, the next day that moment is behind you. If you are constantly chasing goals to feel worthy, please stop chasing, and really start enjoying every moment of what you are doing! THAT is where they joy is. It is NEVER in the final moment, because that moment passes – even if one moment is fantastic, it still passes. So the key is to really savor each MOMENT of your life – that's where all of the treasure is – in this NOW MOMENT, and NOT in another point in time.
You will feel much better about yourself when you really start ENJOYING who you are, and each moment of your life. That is when you will begin to feel all that you really are – right now.
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good
Did 25 minutes on the stationary bike, 5 minutes on the mini trampoline and 20 minutes on the tread mill.Wow! I did not know I could do that much after my heart attack.I never did that before and I have to say that the depression anxiety I was feeling has lessened.It shows you how motivated I am to get my body and heart back to a better fitness state than ever before.I have to wear a monitor for the whole proceeding but it is good to know that I am being watched for any signs of trouble.I can already feel my attitude is confident and the panic attacks partially from stress are not coming or are less severe.Getting out of the house and being with other people who have their own heart stories I believe is a large factor in the reduction of all those things I suffered with in the past.When I get scared I can talk to one of them, or the registered nurse and I feel connected to the group.Isolation at a time when you are dealing w
2. Isn't it true that if I accomplish something of value I'll feel better about myself?
If you are going to base your self worth on "accomplishments" then you are NEVER going to feel inner peace, or genuine confidence from the inside out!
You will be chasing one accomplishment after another, and no matter how many mountains you climb, or how many degrees you receive, or how many billions of dollars you have in the back, or how many people you’ve cured, it is NOT about the “accomplishment” – it IS about the PROCESS, and the JOY you feel during the process!
I know many people that have all shared that the certain days and nights of their 'accomplishments' (including when my first box of published books was delivered to my door) we actually were NOT happy on those 'accomplished' days. We all loved the process of doing it all, but the final moment was not filled with so much joy. Additionally, how can you live your life for one accomplished moment?
When you win the Oscar, the next day that moment is behind you. If you are constantly chasing goals to feel worthy, please stop chasing, and really start enjoying every moment of what you are doing! THAT is where they joy is. It is NEVER in the final moment, because that moment passes – even if one moment is fantastic, it still passes. So the key is to really savor each MOMENT of your life – that's where all of the treasure is – in this NOW MOMENT, and NOT in another point in time.
You will feel much better about yourself when you really start ENJOYING who you are, and each moment of your life. That is when you will begin to feel all that you really are – right now.
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good
There’s a lot of maneuvering going on in today’s entrepreneurial marketplace. Everyone’s trying to get their piece of the action or in some cases, all of the action. How does a business get an edge?Many businesses have products or services that never get the recognition and commercial success they should simply because they are the victims of bad or improper marketing, advertising and public relations. No matter how great the organization believes their product or service is, if they haven’t put together a plan to inform their target audience that it’s on the market, they might as well close up shop.An effective marketing plan should incorporate a clear knowledge and understanding of whom the company sees as their customer. This can be accomplished by researching who currently uses a similar product or service. In the case of consumer products and services find out where potential customers live, how old they are, what their shopping habits are, what newspapers they
When you win the Oscar, the next day that moment is behind you. If you are constantly chasing goals to feel worthy, please stop chasing, and really start enjoying every moment of what you are doing! THAT is where they joy is. It is NEVER in the final moment, because that moment passes – even if one moment is fantastic, it still passes. So the key is to really savor each MOMENT of your life – that's where all of the treasure is – in this NOW MOMENT, and NOT in another point in time.
You will feel much better about yourself when you really start ENJOYING who you are, and each moment of your life. That is when you will begin to feel all that you really are – right now.
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good
Like all the other industries, various insurance Companies also cover Healthcare industry. Companies differ in the areas where medical malpractices are covered. However, these insurance Companies provide various guidelines and conditions to meet with, before the claim is examined and covered.Medical Malpractice Insurance claims are examined and investigated, as to whether the claim is authentic before settling the claim amount to the claimant. Often these procedures are long and time consuming and sometimes after the whole process is completed, the claim is denied and no money is paid. Situations like this can eventually cause insurance disputes. Insurance agents often tend to test whether the claim is true and hence disputes occur. In case they find out that the claim made, does not fall under the areas mentioned clearly in the policy opened by the customer, they refuse to pay the coverage amount. These areas again vary from one policy to other, depending on the premium p
3. What do I do when I don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else?
If you don’t feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, that is because you have not yet fell in love with yourself first!
It is time for you to really take a good hard look inside of your heart, and up-root every untruth you have ever been told, every lie you ever bought into about yourself, and every insult that you have ever called yourself, and replace that with pure self-love, without an outward condition attached to it.
When you can really feel your own value, and you can appreciate all of the good that you really are, THEN you will feel comfortable "being in love" with someone else, without the fear that you will somehow be consumed, controlled, or lose your self completely.
No one can ever control or consume you, unless you allow them to do so. Start to allow yourself to slowly feel the love you have inside, and take tiny steps to show that on the outside. Once you see that the world is still the same, and you are actually safe, then you can take another step with more confidence.
You can only give what you have inside, so it is not so much that you are not comfortable being in love with someone else, as it is that you have not been comfortable really loving YOU.
True love for Self does NOT come from ego. Self hate comes from ego. So it is a valuable lesson to love every part of your being – especially the parts you want to disown. It is important to view ALL of you as worthy, and not just certain parts of you. There are many people that have many different challenges in life. Some physical, some emotional. However, each one is an inherently special and precious spiritual/human being – including you!
Once you re-train your mind to view yourself with more love and acceptance, then you will more easily and comfortably be able to show this to someone else in return.
4. How does the "mirror dialogue" really work in raising self esteem?
The "mirror dialogue" is an enormously powerful process that was originally taught to me by a man named Bill Burns in Los Angeles, in 1994. I personally have experienced a profound shift in self love and self value as a result.
I have taught this to countless people, and first we ALL had the same (ego) reaction. "Ugh! Talk to myself in the mirror, and tell myself all of my good qualities based on my observable actions? No Way!"
Each and every single person that did this each day began to feel an immeasurable amount of pure self love and self value.
You actually have to take a few minutes out of your day and evening, and share with that precious person in the mirror at least three good qualities about yourself, based solely and completely on your OBSERVABLE ACTIONS – so your EGO will know that you are not bullshitting yourself. If you tell yourself airy fairy affirmations like, "I love me" your ego will just crack up and laugh at the very face that deserves all of the love in the world – YOURS!
However, if you tell yourself that you are caring, or kind when you helped an elderly person take their groceries into their house, or you told yourself that you are responsible for getting to work so that you can pay your rent, and if you told yourself that you are loving when you gave your children or pet a hug – that IS the truth, and you will ally you with you.
The first week or so your ego will have fierce resistance to this. The first time I did this (and this is quoted in my book Individual Power) I went up to the mirror, took a look at my face, and promptly said: "F___ You Bitch, Okay, you’re responsible, loving, and clean – Bye!" That was ove
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