until you look at yourself in the mirror and feel your wholeness and completeness as you are now.

All manifestation and desire must be a true expression of self: to be of service, to contribute, and to make a difference—the difference you came into this life to create.

If you set conditions on your self-worth—conditions such as marrying a certain person or having a certain home or weighing a certain amount—you will be forever caught in seeking to obtain your worth. This pr

The passion and determination you feel within your heart and soul are the forces of manifestation.

So as you wish to create or give birth to a new area of self-expression and manifestation in your life, trust that you will be divinely guided from within to fulfill what you wish to express and manifest.

Release all attachment to outcomes. Attachment to outcomes causes anxiety. I want you to learn how to feel and be in love with the process of your life rather than the moment of completion.

Now I am going to share with you seven steps that I learned many years ago, to help you with manifesting what you came into this life to live.

1. Decide. You must first decide exactly what you wish to express and manifest.

2. Be Willing. You must be willing to do whatever it takes, with dignity and pure motives.

3. Commit. You must commit fully to the process.

4. Let Go. This means to let go of doubts, worry, and fear about how it is all going to turn out.

5. Follow. Follow your gut instincts. Follow that still small voice within. Follow your truth at all times. Follow through with what you need to take care of. Follow the next indicated step. This is the process, and it is meant to be filled with joy.

6. Wait. Have patience. There are higher reasons why something is not happening right now, this minute. Perhaps two weeks or two months from now will turn out to be a better time to manifest what you are working to bring about. Trust that delays are always beneficial. It will all turn out according to what is for your highest good.

7. Experience and Have. One day you will look back and see that you actually have in your life the full essence of what you first decided to manifest.

Desire and Outcomes

No matter what you have or don't have, no matter how much you have accumulated or how much you achieve, you will never feel whole and complete until you look at yourself in the mirror and feel your wholeness and completeness as you are now.

All manifestation and desire must be a true expression of self: to be of service, to contribute, and to make a difference—the difference you came into this life to create.

If you set conditions on your self-worth—conditions such as marrying a certain person or having a certain home or weighing a certain amount—you will be forever caught in seeking to obtain your worth. This pro

of completion.

Now I am going to share with you seven steps that I learned many years ago, to help you with manifesting what you came into this life to live.

1. Decide. You must first decide exactly what you wish to express and manifest.

2. Be Willing. You must be willing to do whatever it takes, with dignity and pure motives.

3. Commit. You must commit fully to the process.

4. Let Go. This means to let go of doubts, worry, and fear about how it is all going to turn out.

5. Follow. Follow your gut instincts. Follow that still small voice within. Follow your truth at all times. Follow through with what you need to take care of. Follow the next indicated step. This is the process, and it is meant to be filled with joy.

6. Wait. Have patience. There are higher reasons why something is not happening right now, this minute. Perhaps two weeks or two months from now will turn out to be a better time to manifest what you are working to bring about. Trust that delays are always beneficial. It will all turn out according to what is for your highest good.

7. Experience and Have. One day you will look back and see that you actually have in your life the full essence of what you first decided to manifest.

Desire and Outcomes

No matter what you have or don't have, no matter how much you have accumulated or how much you achieve, you will never feel whole and complete until you look at yourself in the mirror and feel your wholeness and completeness as you are now.

All manifestation and desire must be a true expression of self: to be of service, to contribute, and to make a difference—the difference you came into this life to create.

If you set conditions on your self-worth—conditions such as marrying a certain person or having a certain home or weighing a certain amount—you will be forever caught in seeking to obtain your worth. This pr

bout how it is all going to turn out.

5. Follow. Follow your gut instincts. Follow that still small voice within. Follow your truth at all times. Follow through with what you need to take care of. Follow the next indicated step. This is the process, and it is meant to be filled with joy.

6. Wait. Have patience. There are higher reasons why something is not happening right now, this minute. Perhaps two weeks or two months from now will turn out to be a better time to manifest what you are working to bring about. Trust that delays are always beneficial. It will all turn out according to what is for your highest good.

7. Experience and Have. One day you will look back and see that you actually have in your life the full essence of what you first decided to manifest.

Desire and Outcomes

No matter what you have or don't have, no matter how much you have accumulated or how much you achieve, you will never feel whole and complete until you look at yourself in the mirror and feel your wholeness and completeness as you are now.

All manifestation and desire must be a true expression of self: to be of service, to contribute, and to make a difference—the difference you came into this life to create.

If you set conditions on your self-worth—conditions such as marrying a certain person or having a certain home or weighing a certain amount—you will be forever caught in seeking to obtain your worth. This pr

manifest what you are working to bring about. Trust that delays are always beneficial. It will all turn out according to what is for your highest good.

7. Experience and Have. One day you will look back and see that you actually have in your life the full essence of what you first decided to manifest.

Desire and Outcomes

No matter what you have or don't have, no matter how much you have accumulated or how much you achieve, you will never feel whole and complete until you look at yourself in the mirror and feel your wholeness and completeness as you are now.

All manifestation and desire must be a true expression of self: to be of service, to contribute, and to make a difference—the difference you came into this life to create.

If you set conditions on your self-worth—conditions such as marrying a certain person or having a certain home or weighing a certain amount—you will be forever caught in seeking to obtain your worth. This pr

until you look at yourself in the mirror and feel your wholeness and completeness as you are now.

All manifestation and desire must be a true expression of self: to be of service, to contribute, and to make a difference—the difference you came into this life to create.

If you set conditions on your self-worth—conditions such as marrying a certain person or having a certain home or weighing a certain amount—you will be forever caught in seeking to obtain your worth. This process has put many people in a living hell of invalidation.

Did you ever notice women who have so much and still feel insecure? I used to be one of them. I used to falsely believe that outer stature would make me "somebody." But as I grew, I learned that we are all somebody, especially you!

© Copyright by Barbara Rose, Ph.D. All Rights Reserved. Excerpt from the book Know Yourself: A Woman's Guide to Wholeness, Radiance & Supreme Confidence. Published by The Rose Group (January 2005) ISBN: 0974145742 Available on Amazon.Com and through New Leaf Distributors.