tomer, I'll see right away that you misled me into to talking with you. I will immediately distrust you. You'll find it much harder to build trust or credibility with me.

I don't think tricks like these are needed to get prospects to talk. That's the lazy way to sell.

If you have something the prospect needs and if you approach them in a professional and appropriate way, eventually you'll connect with them. If not, you try again later. If

In talking with a friend of mine, the topic of prospecting for new leads came up. He told me a story that provides a real life example of how easy it is for a salesperson to cross the line between honesty and dishonesty.

The salesperson he told me about sells the kinds of products most small offices or retail stores would need. He finds new leads by cold calling on businesses.

But this salesperson puts a dishonest twist into his prospecting. He'll walk into a store and engage the owner or manager like he's interested in buying something. He'll ask questions, show interest in the store or the products and even toss out a few well-placed compliments.

Then, when the conversation is warm enough he'll go into his sales pitch.

I realize that, in the grand scheme of things, this is not a major ethical infraction. Obviously people do things that are much worse than this.

But does that make it right?

This salesperson has engaged his prospect by misleading them. He has misrepresented his intentions. He has chosen to deceive another person just to get them talking.

How can that be a good way to begin a potential business relationship?

Furthermore, why do some people think this is okay? Are people actually teaching this in sales training seminars?

It's easy to dismiss these tactics as innocent. We might say they're no worse than the "little white lies" we sometimes tell. We might even argue that tricks like these are necessary and appropriate because prospects are so hard to talk to. They "force" salespeople to resort to these misleading tactics.

But I disagree.

If you're going to begin a relationship with dishonesty then where does it stop? Where do you draw the line and start being honest with your new customer?

As a potential customer, I'll see right away that you misled me into to talking with you. I will immediately distrust you. You'll find it much harder to build trust or credibility with me.

I don't think tricks like these are needed to get prospects to talk. That's the lazy way to sell.

If you have something the prospect needs and if you approach them in a professional and appropriate way, eventually you'll connect with them. If not, you try again later. If y

g. He'll walk into a store and engage the owner or manager like he's interested in buying something. He'll ask questions, show interest in the store or the products and even toss out a few well-placed compliments.

Then, when the conversation is warm enough he'll go into his sales pitch.

I realize that, in the grand scheme of things, this is not a major ethical infraction. Obviously people do things that are much worse than this.

But does that make it right?

This salesperson has engaged his prospect by misleading them. He has misrepresented his intentions. He has chosen to deceive another person just to get them talking.

How can that be a good way to begin a potential business relationship?

Furthermore, why do some people think this is okay? Are people actually teaching this in sales training seminars?

It's easy to dismiss these tactics as innocent. We might say they're no worse than the "little white lies" we sometimes tell. We might even argue that tricks like these are necessary and appropriate because prospects are so hard to talk to. They "force" salespeople to resort to these misleading tactics.

But I disagree.

If you're going to begin a relationship with dishonesty then where does it stop? Where do you draw the line and start being honest with your new customer?

As a potential customer, I'll see right away that you misled me into to talking with you. I will immediately distrust you. You'll find it much harder to build trust or credibility with me.

I don't think tricks like these are needed to get prospects to talk. That's the lazy way to sell.

If you have something the prospect needs and if you approach them in a professional and appropriate way, eventually you'll connect with them. If not, you try again later. If

oes that make it right?

This salesperson has engaged his prospect by misleading them. He has misrepresented his intentions. He has chosen to deceive another person just to get them talking.

How can that be a good way to begin a potential business relationship?

Furthermore, why do some people think this is okay? Are people actually teaching this in sales training seminars?

It's easy to dismiss these tactics as innocent. We might say they're no worse than the "little white lies" we sometimes tell. We might even argue that tricks like these are necessary and appropriate because prospects are so hard to talk to. They "force" salespeople to resort to these misleading tactics.

But I disagree.

If you're going to begin a relationship with dishonesty then where does it stop? Where do you draw the line and start being honest with your new customer?

As a potential customer, I'll see right away that you misled me into to talking with you. I will immediately distrust you. You'll find it much harder to build trust or credibility with me.

I don't think tricks like these are needed to get prospects to talk. That's the lazy way to sell.

If you have something the prospect needs and if you approach them in a professional and appropriate way, eventually you'll connect with them. If not, you try again later. If

say they're no worse than the "little white lies" we sometimes tell. We might even argue that tricks like these are necessary and appropriate because prospects are so hard to talk to. They "force" salespeople to resort to these misleading tactics.

But I disagree.

If you're going to begin a relationship with dishonesty then where does it stop? Where do you draw the line and start being honest with your new customer?

As a potential customer, I'll see right away that you misled me into to talking with you. I will immediately distrust you. You'll find it much harder to build trust or credibility with me.

I don't think tricks like these are needed to get prospects to talk. That's the lazy way to sell.

If you have something the prospect needs and if you approach them in a professional and appropriate way, eventually you'll connect with them. If not, you try again later. If

tomer, I'll see right away that you misled me into to talking with you. I will immediately distrust you. You'll find it much harder to build trust or credibility with me.

I don't think tricks like these are needed to get prospects to talk. That's the lazy way to sell.

If you have something the prospect needs and if you approach them in a professional and appropriate way, eventually you'll connect with them. If not, you try again later. If you try several times and get nowhere, maybe you hand them off to another salesperson to try. Or maybe you remove them from your list for now. (You can't sell everyone.)

Maybe the bottom line is to remember the golden rule. Do you enjoy being lied to? Do you trust people who purposely mislead you to accomplish their goal?

Most of us do not like being misled. I think it's a lousy way to begin a business relationship. My advice to this salesperson is to find a better, more honest way of approaching prospects.