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Add You - You're Single for a Reason
When fighting the enemy on the battlefield often one way to wear them down is to come at them in subsequent waves one after another. Not allowing the enemy to re-coup, reload or rest. If you consider constant exposure to an environmental toxin, disease or flu the body’s immune system is bombarded with wave after wave and must fight it off. If the body is weak, the immune system not up to par or if the body is fatigued the flu, virus, cold or disease has a much better chance of penetration and a successful attack.We must
1. Heal old wounds (emotional baggage)
2. Learn relationship skills (we're not born with a manual)
3. Learn to accept responsibility for your life, needs and outcomes
4. Identify and change unproductive habits and patterns
5. Identify and change unproductive attitudes and beliefs
As I review the above honestly I can see the things that my two divorces helped me to learn. As I look back on all the events that happened in my life that didn't go the way I wanted (like the time I crashed my sailboat into the rocks of Alcatraz) I can see they all happened for a reason related to one or more of the above that I needed to learn.
To paraphrase Jim Rohn, "Life doesn't giv
The lending business is one of the oldest businesses of the world. Right from the ancient times, there have been people who have more money than what they require and those who require more money than what they have. People with surplus money, called lenders, offer it to those, called borrowers, who need it. In return, borrowers give lenders an amount, known as interest, along with the original loan amount.The lending business is still thriving with some changes. Unlike ancient times when the rates of interest were very
As a child of divorce I swore that when I got married it would be for life, yet I've been married and divorced twice. I wish it were different, but that is the reality I must accept about my life, and since I made my relationship choices, I can't blame my exes, my mother, father, or anyone else for my outcomes.
FATE AND DESTINY
I strongly believe in taking ownership for my life, choices, and outcomes, so much so that I call it The Most Important Relationship Skill. While my actions and choices largely determine my outcomes, as silly and incongruous as it might be, I also believe in "fate" or "destiny," that things happen as they're meant to happen. This force can also be called "The Law of Attraction," which helps me to embrace and accept "what is," believing that I'm exacting where I need to be, going where my life purpose needs to go.
I don't believe in chance or randomness. Things happen for a reason. When something happens that I don't like (divorce, car accident, etc) I've found that if I ask myself "What's the purpose or reason for this event?" I can always come up with one pretty easily, especially if I'm honest with myself. And darn it, the answer always seems to be something I need to learn, something the Universe is trying to teach me, that I'm resisting. As RCI coach LeAnn O'Neal says "Each painful moment is an opportunity for new expansion." I'll try to remember that next time...
ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT
After 50 years on this planet I finally "got" that "what you resist, persists," and learned to examine and accept life's lessons. My attitude used to be "I know" and "I can handle it" and "I have it under control" (hey, at least it wasn't "It's their fault" and "Why me?" and "I deserve it!"). Now my attitude is a little more humble, such as "What do I need to learn?" and "What's the reason or purpose behind this?"
I'm very clear now that my outcomes are determined by how I show up, which is largely driven by my attitudes. What's inside shows up on the outside and what I'm thinking will become reality, so I must monitor and make conscious choices about what I allow my thoughts to focus upon. Wow, not only do I need to take responsibility for my actions, I have to own the consequences of my private thoughts and beliefs!
THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION
If you're single and would prefer to be in a fulfilling relationship, I'm playing with the idea that the most important coaching question for you is "Why are you single?"
"Why" doesn't mean "What happened?" or "Whose fault is it?" In this case "Why" refers to big picture questions such as "What is the purpose or reason for you being single at this time in your life?" and "What do you need to learn that is getting in the way of your relationships?"
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO LEARN?
If you're single and want a life partnership, what are the major life learnings or lessons that must be mastered before you can find your soul mate and live happily ever after? Here are five possibilities that occur to me-
1. Heal old wounds (emotional baggage)
2. Learn relationship skills (we're not born with a manual)
3. Learn to accept responsibility for your life, needs and outcomes
4. Identify and change unproductive habits and patterns
5. Identify and change unproductive attitudes and beliefs
As I review the above honestly I can see the things that my two divorces helped me to learn. As I look back on all the events that happened in my life that didn't go the way I wanted (like the time I crashed my sailboat into the rocks of Alcatraz) I can see they all happened for a reason related to one or more of the above that I needed to learn.
To paraphrase Jim Rohn, "Life doesn't give
Think about it. If you consume more than you burn, you'll be left with a surplus. If you burn less than you consume, you have weight loss.UnDiet can help you get your weight loss strategy started, but UnDiet alone isn't going to help you lose pounds. You have to find a balance between how many calories you consume and who many calories you burn.Short-term weight loss plans that restrict your eating habits can actually prevent you from losing weight. You can't fluctuate between extreme weight loss and extreme weig
I don't believe in chance or randomness. Things happen for a reason. When something happens that I don't like (divorce, car accident, etc) I've found that if I ask myself "What's the purpose or reason for this event?" I can always come up with one pretty easily, especially if I'm honest with myself. And darn it, the answer always seems to be something I need to learn, something the Universe is trying to teach me, that I'm resisting. As RCI coach LeAnn O'Neal says "Each painful moment is an opportunity for new expansion." I'll try to remember that next time...
ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT
After 50 years on this planet I finally "got" that "what you resist, persists," and learned to examine and accept life's lessons. My attitude used to be "I know" and "I can handle it" and "I have it under control" (hey, at least it wasn't "It's their fault" and "Why me?" and "I deserve it!"). Now my attitude is a little more humble, such as "What do I need to learn?" and "What's the reason or purpose behind this?"
I'm very clear now that my outcomes are determined by how I show up, which is largely driven by my attitudes. What's inside shows up on the outside and what I'm thinking will become reality, so I must monitor and make conscious choices about what I allow my thoughts to focus upon. Wow, not only do I need to take responsibility for my actions, I have to own the consequences of my private thoughts and beliefs!
THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION
If you're single and would prefer to be in a fulfilling relationship, I'm playing with the idea that the most important coaching question for you is "Why are you single?"
"Why" doesn't mean "What happened?" or "Whose fault is it?" In this case "Why" refers to big picture questions such as "What is the purpose or reason for you being single at this time in your life?" and "What do you need to learn that is getting in the way of your relationships?"
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO LEARN?
If you're single and want a life partnership, what are the major life learnings or lessons that must be mastered before you can find your soul mate and live happily ever after? Here are five possibilities that occur to me-
1. Heal old wounds (emotional baggage)
2. Learn relationship skills (we're not born with a manual)
3. Learn to accept responsibility for your life, needs and outcomes
4. Identify and change unproductive habits and patterns
5. Identify and change unproductive attitudes and beliefs
As I review the above honestly I can see the things that my two divorces helped me to learn. As I look back on all the events that happened in my life that didn't go the way I wanted (like the time I crashed my sailboat into the rocks of Alcatraz) I can see they all happened for a reason related to one or more of the above that I needed to learn.
To paraphrase Jim Rohn, "Life doesn't giv
When speaking in public, it is always best to communicate a clear set of ground rules near the beginning of your public speaking engagement. For instance, if you do not want questions until the end of your program, state that up front and get agreement from the group.If comments from the audience are allowed, ask that they be kept to a certain amount of time (like 30 seconds or less).Getting everyone to agree to your plan in the beginning puts enormous peer pressure on an individual violating any of the rules.
ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT
After 50 years on this planet I finally "got" that "what you resist, persists," and learned to examine and accept life's lessons. My attitude used to be "I know" and "I can handle it" and "I have it under control" (hey, at least it wasn't "It's their fault" and "Why me?" and "I deserve it!"). Now my attitude is a little more humble, such as "What do I need to learn?" and "What's the reason or purpose behind this?"
I'm very clear now that my outcomes are determined by how I show up, which is largely driven by my attitudes. What's inside shows up on the outside and what I'm thinking will become reality, so I must monitor and make conscious choices about what I allow my thoughts to focus upon. Wow, not only do I need to take responsibility for my actions, I have to own the consequences of my private thoughts and beliefs!
THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION
If you're single and would prefer to be in a fulfilling relationship, I'm playing with the idea that the most important coaching question for you is "Why are you single?"
"Why" doesn't mean "What happened?" or "Whose fault is it?" In this case "Why" refers to big picture questions such as "What is the purpose or reason for you being single at this time in your life?" and "What do you need to learn that is getting in the way of your relationships?"
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO LEARN?
If you're single and want a life partnership, what are the major life learnings or lessons that must be mastered before you can find your soul mate and live happily ever after? Here are five possibilities that occur to me-
1. Heal old wounds (emotional baggage)
2. Learn relationship skills (we're not born with a manual)
3. Learn to accept responsibility for your life, needs and outcomes
4. Identify and change unproductive habits and patterns
5. Identify and change unproductive attitudes and beliefs
As I review the above honestly I can see the things that my two divorces helped me to learn. As I look back on all the events that happened in my life that didn't go the way I wanted (like the time I crashed my sailboat into the rocks of Alcatraz) I can see they all happened for a reason related to one or more of the above that I needed to learn.
To paraphrase Jim Rohn, "Life doesn't giv
Money making is easy very easy at this time when the world is at your finger tips. Get connected to the web and get your hands on a suitable home business career. Many of us run after corporate careers but lack the home based business idea that can build a corporate.Sounds incredible? It may seem if you are still in the comfort zones of 9-5 career and accustomed to peer pressure and boss pressure. But if you are an entrepreneur and judge things on business prospective you will find a
"Why" doesn't mean "What happened?" or "Whose fault is it?" In this case "Why" refers to big picture questions such as "What is the purpose or reason for you being single at this time in your life?" and "What do you need to learn that is getting in the way of your relationships?"
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO LEARN?
If you're single and want a life partnership, what are the major life learnings or lessons that must be mastered before you can find your soul mate and live happily ever after? Here are five possibilities that occur to me-
1. Heal old wounds (emotional baggage)
2. Learn relationship skills (we're not born with a manual)
3. Learn to accept responsibility for your life, needs and outcomes
4. Identify and change unproductive habits and patterns
5. Identify and change unproductive attitudes and beliefs
As I review the above honestly I can see the things that my two divorces helped me to learn. As I look back on all the events that happened in my life that didn't go the way I wanted (like the time I crashed my sailboat into the rocks of Alcatraz) I can see they all happened for a reason related to one or more of the above that I needed to learn.
To paraphrase Jim Rohn, "Life doesn't giv
Currently in the United States of America we have a terrible illegal alien and illegal immigration problem due to the number of people that are sneaking over the border between the United States and Mexico. Some estimate that there are over between 12 million and 18 million illegal aliens and illegal immigrants in our country today. We know for a fact that there are over 6 million over stayed visas as well.This is quite alarming if you consider that 6 million plus 18 million is 24 million illegal aliens in our country
1. Heal old wounds (emotional baggage)
2. Learn relationship skills (we're not born with a manual)
3. Learn to accept responsibility for your life, needs and outcomes
4. Identify and change unproductive habits and patterns
5. Identify and change unproductive attitudes and beliefs
As I review the above honestly I can see the things that my two divorces helped me to learn. As I look back on all the events that happened in my life that didn't go the way I wanted (like the time I crashed my sailboat into the rocks of Alcatraz) I can see they all happened for a reason related to one or more of the above that I needed to learn.
To paraphrase Jim Rohn, "Life doesn't give you what you want, need, or expect; Life gives you what you need to learn."
So, if you're single and reading this, why are you single at this time in your life? What do you need to learn to find and have a fulfilling relationship? I sincerely hope your answers to these questions lead you to the life and love that you really want.
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