ccess, Mix and Encourage). Any family follows GAME rule, I assure my esteem readers that there would no teen suicide. First find time to Gossip and chat to create tension free environment at home, second let your child feel free to Access you, third frequently Mix up with your children as they grow and begin to treat friends and not children; and fourth the most important step of your teenagers maturity is to Encourage in all walks of life in sharing social responsibilities with pride. If you follow GAME rule, you would avoid IRC stages in your life.

Anyhow, wherever a teenager had committed suicide, I found that the parents had miserably failed in both Preventive and Identification (PI) stages. Despites of clear indications at home and school, the teenagers were neglected, thereby, abetting them to take extreme step of committing suicide. Infact, parents under the duress of meeting financial and social home and family responsibilities have ignored their children. How can such parents prevent their children from taking extreme steps of ending life? Such parents need to be observant at home. I advocate observing behavioral changes such as isolation, irritation, arrogance or retorting attitude of your teenager. In most of the cases teenagers loose interest in studies. They generally remain absent from school on various pretexts without their parent’s knowledge.

After identifying the problem follow simple Remedial measures,
•One make sure to dedicate daily minimum an hour to your teens from a month prior to examination till termination;
•Two make your child understand between your dreams and ambition, and;
•Three repeatedly assure your child that his life is more precious than anything else including exam results.

Once, you have implemented remedial measures, now take curing action to eradicate problem forever. Now, BST exercise under direct supervision of parent has to be implemented. Teenager has to be reassured that parent’s ambition is not at the cost of his life. Once, a child has been affected, thereafter, he requires regular attention of mother or father personal care. Only parents can cure their child at this stage. Do not put your child under drugs rather take him to some hill station and make him believe that what so ever he achieves in life, it will be accepted with open heart. If you leave it purely to medical or psychologist advises alone, rest assure you failed to be good parent.

I am sure that august readers would be able to follow various therapies, which I tried to chronically record to prevent loss of a teenagers live before adulthood. It is an important social responsibility of all of us to ensure that our teenagers become our founding pi

My Dear Esteem Readers,

I am once again amongst you with my latest stress management therapy for teenagers and adolescence boys and girls. Often, you would have observed that the growing up children repeatedly exhibit high signs of stress, anxiety, fear and worrisome behavior near their examinations. They get irritated very fast and reflect violent behavior both by words and deeds. Most of the times parent, especially father reprimands to suppress their teenagers’ perceived arrogance either by beating them or using unsympathetic language towards them. Generally he, to silence his teenager’s inquisitiveness uses forced methods. He also fails to comprehend his teen’s attitude who is trying to adapt self in the new changing environment. At this stage of change where teen’s body is undergoing various physical changes, he finds moral and physical care both at home and outside. It is seen that numerous teens go astray due to lack proper guidance at home and school. When a teenager, while trying to understand various changes of complex body and repeatedly gets refutations from parent, he tries to take a wrong step. Such teens often commit suicide when they find lack of understanding between them, their parents and teachers. During my study to analyze the causes of teenager’s suicide, I have found that the parent’s negligent behavior had mainly contributed towards their suicide.

Can we stop teenager’s suicide?

Of course yes. With this social responsibility in mind, I am dedicating this article and year to save the new generation from Scourge of Suicide.

The first apprehension which struck my mind is to analyze as to why a teenager is driven to a corner where he ultimately finds solace in committing suicide only? His continued failure in harmonizing various body changes, mental stresses and social pressures makes him believe that life is useless; therefore, he should end it. Such teens often undergo immense mental anxiety before finally ending their lives. I have identified a few reasons as to why teenagers commit suicide?

• One, when teenager finds that no one understands him;
• Two when he begins to reply “I know”. It is state of growth of his mind and body when he tries to ascertain his status between what he knows and what not. It is often seen that most of the teens reply back to their parents under frustration. Such replies are often heard when parents repeatedly tried to guide their children on a unique trait of conduct;
• Three when he is still attempting to ascertain his position between, teen and adulthood or tyro and maturity;
• Four when he undergoes severe mental stress between his childhood and adulthood ego states and his actual status at home, school and society. Most of the times, the teen feels that he has grown enough and capable to take independence decisions but the parent’s think otherwise;
• Five when teen begins to repent for actions which he perceives not wrong to satisfy his peers ego;
• Six when he finds lack of will and loss of confidence in meeting various aspirations and challenges expected out of him; and
• Seven when cumulative effects of all activities outweigh his failure to success ratio (9:1) at home then such teenagers find solace in committing suicide and only suicide. The ratio of 9:1 is the cumulative effect of parents and teachers continuous action in reminding their teen as to why he is not doing well every where.
• Eight when parents rebuke their teenagers for even minor mistakes at home and teachers reprimand him for lack of interest in studies. That is where he goes wrong and makes an awful decision of ending his invaluable life.

Why most of the teenagers commit suicide when they are in ninth, tenth or twelfth standards? Has anyone ever tried to analyze as to why teenagers and adolescence boys and girls behave alike when they are transiting through the most crucial stage of their life. I say no, not at all. Has anyone tried to carryout an insight study on their behavioral changes? Yes, of course there are a few psychological specialists who talks about bookish, scientific and inviable knowledge of understanding and not the actual insight study of mind and heart of a teenager. In fact most of the documents on the subjects are written by those who had very satisfying, passive and protected teen.

Today, my endeavour is to discuss and understand the various problems and suggest remedial and preventive measures of a teenager to curtail their basic tendency of committing suicide. During my study, I came across a teen who committed suicide after having passed his tenth standard with over 60% marks in 1988. Why he committed suicide, because he could not muster enough courage to face his poor parents at home. He, despites of ninety-nine percent knowing well that he would pass could not bear humiliation of having failed. Despite knowing that his classmate is joking and telling lies in the school, he committed suicide enroute from school to home on the fear of one percent truth. He lost his confidence and committed suicide on the misconception of failure. When he out weighed more chances of failure than success, he went in to deep depression. The question that had he failed than how he would face his poverty ridden parent, struck his mind very badly. Indecisive and inconclusive, he was forced by the circumstances to commit suicide. The fear of failure of even one percent had disturbed his mind so much that he went in to deep despair. He could not even tolerate a joke of failure from his classmates. The moment he heard that he had failed; he suffered so much depression, dejection and fear that, he rather than mustering enough courage to face his poor parents, preferred to take away his life.

In view of the foresaid, my first tip is towards parent. The parent has to understand their children behavior after he had passed ninth standard or has crossed the age of thirteen. Three obvious behavioral changes would be evident.

• One, he would like to assert his position in the family, society and environment, thereby, frequently getting embroiled in dialogue with mother, brother or sister;
• Two, teenager become reserve thus he isolates himself from friends and family, thereby, exhibiting mark change in his social behavior; and;
• Three, becomes irritant, repulsive and negative thinker when too frequently checked at home or school. When you try to tell teen that don’t do this or that and what not, he tries to revolt. Do not censure him all the time. If you observe any of the symptoms in your teen, think something is wrong.

I believe that “the ability of managing growth of your children as teenagers is the true test of parenthood”. How to understand your children’s mental disorder, you are required need to look into various tangible and no-tangible factors. These factors affect teenagers’ growth and mould their character. I, after carrying out frequent interaction and deliberated discussion with over a thousand teenagers feel obliged to document the findings of various insurmountable visible changes observed in disturbed and unstable state of mind of a teenagers.

All teenagers undergo various physical, biological and hormonal changes in their body especially girls while entering in teen. Parents have to be sympathetic to accept some behavioral changes due to changing physical state of your child. I have generally observes that most of the teenagers become irritant and depressive. A child, at this time is also entering in schools for higher education standard, where he has to ascertain and establish his position, authority and status in the school and at home. Most of the times, school Home Work Pressures (HWP), coupled with body changes generally results in teen’s isolation. He becomes alone. He cannot share his mind with parents and teachers, thereby, feeling alienated from both. If he is extrovert, he learns better or else he goes disarray and makes his life difficult for all. A large number of girls get teen pregnancies and boys tag along drug course.

A neglected child reflects,
• irritant attitude,
• isolated approach,
• demanding and eating food alone,
• shows very assertive and authoritative approach towards his/her younger brothers and sisters

A disturbed stage of teen’s mind needs to be arrested through

• One, regular interaction both by parents and teachers;
• Two regular monitoring his teen daily schedule of events,
• Three minimum one friendly interaction of father with boys and mother with girls for over half an hour daily,
• Four all the parents have to be observant to look for any behavioral change in their child, and five frequently interact with your teen as friends. So far I have highlighted various changes observed in your teen; but hereafter, I would solicit various type of stresses due to which a teenager commits suicide or make an attempt to take away his life.

The first and foremost stress is “Exam Result Syndrome Hype (ERHS)”. In the year 2006 over 26 teenagers have committed suicide due to fear of failure in various examinations in India alone. The numbers could be much higher. During this period, a teen fights with three different type of mental pressures before he commits suicide. One; fear to face over ambitious parent, two fear of social stigma and three fear of school environment of colleagues, teachers and subordinates. He very stubbornly overcomes later two stresses but when he faces the truth of confronting his parent, he looses the battle of life due to lack of faith at home and commits suicide. The only remedy to prevent your teenager’s suicide is to interact with him minimum a month before examination and make him believe that the outcome of examination results would not matter to them as much as his sincere efforts put in. Be assured, your teenager would produce wonders like mine Shruti who keeps topping in all examinations.

Second mental stress is a Teenager’s Conflicting Ego State often referred as CES at home, society, school and environment. He is dwindling between three states of Crust of Maturity (COM), Adolescence Transition Period (ATP) and Adulthood Character Position (ACP) of his own. These three states of COM, ATP and ACP growth often make a teenager shrug his position at home, compromise his status at school and exhibit his stubborn stance in the society. He frequently gets embroiled while trying to ascertain his own status. He exhibits annoyance, defiance and confronting frame of mind, thereby, often making his parent skeptical about his conduct.

The parent needs to learn and follow my “Brain Storming Therapy” (BST) at very early stage. Four stages therapy requires Prevention, Identification, Remedial and Curing (PIRC) stages. To avoid IRC Stages always follow my golden rule of GAME (Gossip, Access, Mix and Encourage). Any family follows GAME rule, I assure my esteem readers that there would no teen suicide. First find time to Gossip and chat to create tension free environment at home, second let your child feel free to Access you, third frequently Mix up with your children as they grow and begin to treat friends and not children; and fourth the most important step of your teenagers maturity is to Encourage in all walks of life in sharing social responsibilities with pride. If you follow GAME rule, you would avoid IRC stages in your life.

Anyhow, wherever a teenager had committed suicide, I found that the parents had miserably failed in both Preventive and Identification (PI) stages. Despites of clear indications at home and school, the teenagers were neglected, thereby, abetting them to take extreme step of committing suicide. Infact, parents under the duress of meeting financial and social home and family responsibilities have ignored their children. How can such parents prevent their children from taking extreme steps of ending life? Such parents need to be observant at home. I advocate observing behavioral changes such as isolation, irritation, arrogance or retorting attitude of your teenager. In most of the cases teenagers loose interest in studies. They generally remain absent from school on various pretexts without their parent’s knowledge.

After identifying the problem follow simple Remedial measures,
•One make sure to dedicate daily minimum an hour to your teens from a month prior to examination till termination;
•Two make your child understand between your dreams and ambition, and;
•Three repeatedly assure your child that his life is more precious than anything else including exam results.

Once, you have implemented remedial measures, now take curing action to eradicate problem forever. Now, BST exercise under direct supervision of parent has to be implemented. Teenager has to be reassured that parent’s ambition is not at the cost of his life. Once, a child has been affected, thereafter, he requires regular attention of mother or father personal care. Only parents can cure their child at this stage. Do not put your child under drugs rather take him to some hill station and make him believe that what so ever he achieves in life, it will be accepted with open heart. If you leave it purely to medical or psychologist advises alone, rest assure you failed to be good parent.

I am sure that august readers would be able to follow various therapies, which I tried to chronically record to prevent loss of a teenagers live before adulthood. It is an important social responsibility of all of us to ensure that our teenagers become our founding pi

, school and society. Most of the times, the teen feels that he has grown enough and capable to take independence decisions but the parent’s think otherwise;
• Five when teen begins to repent for actions which he perceives not wrong to satisfy his peers ego;
• Six when he finds lack of will and loss of confidence in meeting various aspirations and challenges expected out of him; and
• Seven when cumulative effects of all activities outweigh his failure to success ratio (9:1) at home then such teenagers find solace in committing suicide and only suicide. The ratio of 9:1 is the cumulative effect of parents and teachers continuous action in reminding their teen as to why he is not doing well every where.
• Eight when parents rebuke their teenagers for even minor mistakes at home and teachers reprimand him for lack of interest in studies. That is where he goes wrong and makes an awful decision of ending his invaluable life.

Why most of the teenagers commit suicide when they are in ninth, tenth or twelfth standards? Has anyone ever tried to analyze as to why teenagers and adolescence boys and girls behave alike when they are transiting through the most crucial stage of their life. I say no, not at all. Has anyone tried to carryout an insight study on their behavioral changes? Yes, of course there are a few psychological specialists who talks about bookish, scientific and inviable knowledge of understanding and not the actual insight study of mind and heart of a teenager. In fact most of the documents on the subjects are written by those who had very satisfying, passive and protected teen.

Today, my endeavour is to discuss and understand the various problems and suggest remedial and preventive measures of a teenager to curtail their basic tendency of committing suicide. During my study, I came across a teen who committed suicide after having passed his tenth standard with over 60% marks in 1988. Why he committed suicide, because he could not muster enough courage to face his poor parents at home. He, despites of ninety-nine percent knowing well that he would pass could not bear humiliation of having failed. Despite knowing that his classmate is joking and telling lies in the school, he committed suicide enroute from school to home on the fear of one percent truth. He lost his confidence and committed suicide on the misconception of failure. When he out weighed more chances of failure than success, he went in to deep depression. The question that had he failed than how he would face his poverty ridden parent, struck his mind very badly. Indecisive and inconclusive, he was forced by the circumstances to commit suicide. The fear of failure of even one percent had disturbed his mind so much that he went in to deep despair. He could not even tolerate a joke of failure from his classmates. The moment he heard that he had failed; he suffered so much depression, dejection and fear that, he rather than mustering enough courage to face his poor parents, preferred to take away his life.

In view of the foresaid, my first tip is towards parent. The parent has to understand their children behavior after he had passed ninth standard or has crossed the age of thirteen. Three obvious behavioral changes would be evident.

• One, he would like to assert his position in the family, society and environment, thereby, frequently getting embroiled in dialogue with mother, brother or sister;
• Two, teenager become reserve thus he isolates himself from friends and family, thereby, exhibiting mark change in his social behavior; and;
• Three, becomes irritant, repulsive and negative thinker when too frequently checked at home or school. When you try to tell teen that don’t do this or that and what not, he tries to revolt. Do not censure him all the time. If you observe any of the symptoms in your teen, think something is wrong.

I believe that “the ability of managing growth of your children as teenagers is the true test of parenthood”. How to understand your children’s mental disorder, you are required need to look into various tangible and no-tangible factors. These factors affect teenagers’ growth and mould their character. I, after carrying out frequent interaction and deliberated discussion with over a thousand teenagers feel obliged to document the findings of various insurmountable visible changes observed in disturbed and unstable state of mind of a teenagers.

All teenagers undergo various physical, biological and hormonal changes in their body especially girls while entering in teen. Parents have to be sympathetic to accept some behavioral changes due to changing physical state of your child. I have generally observes that most of the teenagers become irritant and depressive. A child, at this time is also entering in schools for higher education standard, where he has to ascertain and establish his position, authority and status in the school and at home. Most of the times, school Home Work Pressures (HWP), coupled with body changes generally results in teen’s isolation. He becomes alone. He cannot share his mind with parents and teachers, thereby, feeling alienated from both. If he is extrovert, he learns better or else he goes disarray and makes his life difficult for all. A large number of girls get teen pregnancies and boys tag along drug course.

A neglected child reflects,
• irritant attitude,
• isolated approach,
• demanding and eating food alone,
• shows very assertive and authoritative approach towards his/her younger brothers and sisters

A disturbed stage of teen’s mind needs to be arrested through

• One, regular interaction both by parents and teachers;
• Two regular monitoring his teen daily schedule of events,
• Three minimum one friendly interaction of father with boys and mother with girls for over half an hour daily,
• Four all the parents have to be observant to look for any behavioral change in their child, and five frequently interact with your teen as friends. So far I have highlighted various changes observed in your teen; but hereafter, I would solicit various type of stresses due to which a teenager commits suicide or make an attempt to take away his life.

The first and foremost stress is “Exam Result Syndrome Hype (ERHS)”. In the year 2006 over 26 teenagers have committed suicide due to fear of failure in various examinations in India alone. The numbers could be much higher. During this period, a teen fights with three different type of mental pressures before he commits suicide. One; fear to face over ambitious parent, two fear of social stigma and three fear of school environment of colleagues, teachers and subordinates. He very stubbornly overcomes later two stresses but when he faces the truth of confronting his parent, he looses the battle of life due to lack of faith at home and commits suicide. The only remedy to prevent your teenager’s suicide is to interact with him minimum a month before examination and make him believe that the outcome of examination results would not matter to them as much as his sincere efforts put in. Be assured, your teenager would produce wonders like mine Shruti who keeps topping in all examinations.

Second mental stress is a Teenager’s Conflicting Ego State often referred as CES at home, society, school and environment. He is dwindling between three states of Crust of Maturity (COM), Adolescence Transition Period (ATP) and Adulthood Character Position (ACP) of his own. These three states of COM, ATP and ACP growth often make a teenager shrug his position at home, compromise his status at school and exhibit his stubborn stance in the society. He frequently gets embroiled while trying to ascertain his own status. He exhibits annoyance, defiance and confronting frame of mind, thereby, often making his parent skeptical about his conduct.

The parent needs to learn and follow my “Brain Storming Therapy” (BST) at very early stage. Four stages therapy requires Prevention, Identification, Remedial and Curing (PIRC) stages. To avoid IRC Stages always follow my golden rule of GAME (Gossip, Access, Mix and Encourage). Any family follows GAME rule, I assure my esteem readers that there would no teen suicide. First find time to Gossip and chat to create tension free environment at home, second let your child feel free to Access you, third frequently Mix up with your children as they grow and begin to treat friends and not children; and fourth the most important step of your teenagers maturity is to Encourage in all walks of life in sharing social responsibilities with pride. If you follow GAME rule, you would avoid IRC stages in your life.

Anyhow, wherever a teenager had committed suicide, I found that the parents had miserably failed in both Preventive and Identification (PI) stages. Despites of clear indications at home and school, the teenagers were neglected, thereby, abetting them to take extreme step of committing suicide. Infact, parents under the duress of meeting financial and social home and family responsibilities have ignored their children. How can such parents prevent their children from taking extreme steps of ending life? Such parents need to be observant at home. I advocate observing behavioral changes such as isolation, irritation, arrogance or retorting attitude of your teenager. In most of the cases teenagers loose interest in studies. They generally remain absent from school on various pretexts without their parent’s knowledge.

After identifying the problem follow simple Remedial measures,
•One make sure to dedicate daily minimum an hour to your teens from a month prior to examination till termination;
•Two make your child understand between your dreams and ambition, and;
•Three repeatedly assure your child that his life is more precious than anything else including exam results.

Once, you have implemented remedial measures, now take curing action to eradicate problem forever. Now, BST exercise under direct supervision of parent has to be implemented. Teenager has to be reassured that parent’s ambition is not at the cost of his life. Once, a child has been affected, thereafter, he requires regular attention of mother or father personal care. Only parents can cure their child at this stage. Do not put your child under drugs rather take him to some hill station and make him believe that what so ever he achieves in life, it will be accepted with open heart. If you leave it purely to medical or psychologist advises alone, rest assure you failed to be good parent.

I am sure that august readers would be able to follow various therapies, which I tried to chronically record to prevent loss of a teenagers live before adulthood. It is an important social responsibility of all of us to ensure that our teenagers become our founding pi

turbed his mind so much that he went in to deep despair. He could not even tolerate a joke of failure from his classmates. The moment he heard that he had failed; he suffered so much depression, dejection and fear that, he rather than mustering enough courage to face his poor parents, preferred to take away his life.

In view of the foresaid, my first tip is towards parent. The parent has to understand their children behavior after he had passed ninth standard or has crossed the age of thirteen. Three obvious behavioral changes would be evident.

• One, he would like to assert his position in the family, society and environment, thereby, frequently getting embroiled in dialogue with mother, brother or sister;
• Two, teenager become reserve thus he isolates himself from friends and family, thereby, exhibiting mark change in his social behavior; and;
• Three, becomes irritant, repulsive and negative thinker when too frequently checked at home or school. When you try to tell teen that don’t do this or that and what not, he tries to revolt. Do not censure him all the time. If you observe any of the symptoms in your teen, think something is wrong.

I believe that “the ability of managing growth of your children as teenagers is the true test of parenthood”. How to understand your children’s mental disorder, you are required need to look into various tangible and no-tangible factors. These factors affect teenagers’ growth and mould their character. I, after carrying out frequent interaction and deliberated discussion with over a thousand teenagers feel obliged to document the findings of various insurmountable visible changes observed in disturbed and unstable state of mind of a teenagers.

All teenagers undergo various physical, biological and hormonal changes in their body especially girls while entering in teen. Parents have to be sympathetic to accept some behavioral changes due to changing physical state of your child. I have generally observes that most of the teenagers become irritant and depressive. A child, at this time is also entering in schools for higher education standard, where he has to ascertain and establish his position, authority and status in the school and at home. Most of the times, school Home Work Pressures (HWP), coupled with body changes generally results in teen’s isolation. He becomes alone. He cannot share his mind with parents and teachers, thereby, feeling alienated from both. If he is extrovert, he learns better or else he goes disarray and makes his life difficult for all. A large number of girls get teen pregnancies and boys tag along drug course.

A neglected child reflects,
• irritant attitude,
• isolated approach,
• demanding and eating food alone,
• shows very assertive and authoritative approach towards his/her younger brothers and sisters

A disturbed stage of teen’s mind needs to be arrested through

• One, regular interaction both by parents and teachers;
• Two regular monitoring his teen daily schedule of events,
• Three minimum one friendly interaction of father with boys and mother with girls for over half an hour daily,
• Four all the parents have to be observant to look for any behavioral change in their child, and five frequently interact with your teen as friends. So far I have highlighted various changes observed in your teen; but hereafter, I would solicit various type of stresses due to which a teenager commits suicide or make an attempt to take away his life.

The first and foremost stress is “Exam Result Syndrome Hype (ERHS)”. In the year 2006 over 26 teenagers have committed suicide due to fear of failure in various examinations in India alone. The numbers could be much higher. During this period, a teen fights with three different type of mental pressures before he commits suicide. One; fear to face over ambitious parent, two fear of social stigma and three fear of school environment of colleagues, teachers and subordinates. He very stubbornly overcomes later two stresses but when he faces the truth of confronting his parent, he looses the battle of life due to lack of faith at home and commits suicide. The only remedy to prevent your teenager’s suicide is to interact with him minimum a month before examination and make him believe that the outcome of examination results would not matter to them as much as his sincere efforts put in. Be assured, your teenager would produce wonders like mine Shruti who keeps topping in all examinations.

Second mental stress is a Teenager’s Conflicting Ego State often referred as CES at home, society, school and environment. He is dwindling between three states of Crust of Maturity (COM), Adolescence Transition Period (ATP) and Adulthood Character Position (ACP) of his own. These three states of COM, ATP and ACP growth often make a teenager shrug his position at home, compromise his status at school and exhibit his stubborn stance in the society. He frequently gets embroiled while trying to ascertain his own status. He exhibits annoyance, defiance and confronting frame of mind, thereby, often making his parent skeptical about his conduct.

The parent needs to learn and follow my “Brain Storming Therapy” (BST) at very early stage. Four stages therapy requires Prevention, Identification, Remedial and Curing (PIRC) stages. To avoid IRC Stages always follow my golden rule of GAME (Gossip, Access, Mix and Encourage). Any family follows GAME rule, I assure my esteem readers that there would no teen suicide. First find time to Gossip and chat to create tension free environment at home, second let your child feel free to Access you, third frequently Mix up with your children as they grow and begin to treat friends and not children; and fourth the most important step of your teenagers maturity is to Encourage in all walks of life in sharing social responsibilities with pride. If you follow GAME rule, you would avoid IRC stages in your life.

Anyhow, wherever a teenager had committed suicide, I found that the parents had miserably failed in both Preventive and Identification (PI) stages. Despites of clear indications at home and school, the teenagers were neglected, thereby, abetting them to take extreme step of committing suicide. Infact, parents under the duress of meeting financial and social home and family responsibilities have ignored their children. How can such parents prevent their children from taking extreme steps of ending life? Such parents need to be observant at home. I advocate observing behavioral changes such as isolation, irritation, arrogance or retorting attitude of your teenager. In most of the cases teenagers loose interest in studies. They generally remain absent from school on various pretexts without their parent’s knowledge.

After identifying the problem follow simple Remedial measures,
•One make sure to dedicate daily minimum an hour to your teens from a month prior to examination till termination;
•Two make your child understand between your dreams and ambition, and;
•Three repeatedly assure your child that his life is more precious than anything else including exam results.

Once, you have implemented remedial measures, now take curing action to eradicate problem forever. Now, BST exercise under direct supervision of parent has to be implemented. Teenager has to be reassured that parent’s ambition is not at the cost of his life. Once, a child has been affected, thereafter, he requires regular attention of mother or father personal care. Only parents can cure their child at this stage. Do not put your child under drugs rather take him to some hill station and make him believe that what so ever he achieves in life, it will be accepted with open heart. If you leave it purely to medical or psychologist advises alone, rest assure you failed to be good parent.

I am sure that august readers would be able to follow various therapies, which I tried to chronically record to prevent loss of a teenagers live before adulthood. It is an important social responsibility of all of us to ensure that our teenagers become our founding pi

ch,
• demanding and eating food alone,
• shows very assertive and authoritative approach towards his/her younger brothers and sisters

A disturbed stage of teen’s mind needs to be arrested through

• One, regular interaction both by parents and teachers;
• Two regular monitoring his teen daily schedule of events,
• Three minimum one friendly interaction of father with boys and mother with girls for over half an hour daily,
• Four all the parents have to be observant to look for any behavioral change in their child, and five frequently interact with your teen as friends. So far I have highlighted various changes observed in your teen; but hereafter, I would solicit various type of stresses due to which a teenager commits suicide or make an attempt to take away his life.

The first and foremost stress is “Exam Result Syndrome Hype (ERHS)”. In the year 2006 over 26 teenagers have committed suicide due to fear of failure in various examinations in India alone. The numbers could be much higher. During this period, a teen fights with three different type of mental pressures before he commits suicide. One; fear to face over ambitious parent, two fear of social stigma and three fear of school environment of colleagues, teachers and subordinates. He very stubbornly overcomes later two stresses but when he faces the truth of confronting his parent, he looses the battle of life due to lack of faith at home and commits suicide. The only remedy to prevent your teenager’s suicide is to interact with him minimum a month before examination and make him believe that the outcome of examination results would not matter to them as much as his sincere efforts put in. Be assured, your teenager would produce wonders like mine Shruti who keeps topping in all examinations.

Second mental stress is a Teenager’s Conflicting Ego State often referred as CES at home, society, school and environment. He is dwindling between three states of Crust of Maturity (COM), Adolescence Transition Period (ATP) and Adulthood Character Position (ACP) of his own. These three states of COM, ATP and ACP growth often make a teenager shrug his position at home, compromise his status at school and exhibit his stubborn stance in the society. He frequently gets embroiled while trying to ascertain his own status. He exhibits annoyance, defiance and confronting frame of mind, thereby, often making his parent skeptical about his conduct.

The parent needs to learn and follow my “Brain Storming Therapy” (BST) at very early stage. Four stages therapy requires Prevention, Identification, Remedial and Curing (PIRC) stages. To avoid IRC Stages always follow my golden rule of GAME (Gossip, Access, Mix and Encourage). Any family follows GAME rule, I assure my esteem readers that there would no teen suicide. First find time to Gossip and chat to create tension free environment at home, second let your child feel free to Access you, third frequently Mix up with your children as they grow and begin to treat friends and not children; and fourth the most important step of your teenagers maturity is to Encourage in all walks of life in sharing social responsibilities with pride. If you follow GAME rule, you would avoid IRC stages in your life.

Anyhow, wherever a teenager had committed suicide, I found that the parents had miserably failed in both Preventive and Identification (PI) stages. Despites of clear indications at home and school, the teenagers were neglected, thereby, abetting them to take extreme step of committing suicide. Infact, parents under the duress of meeting financial and social home and family responsibilities have ignored their children. How can such parents prevent their children from taking extreme steps of ending life? Such parents need to be observant at home. I advocate observing behavioral changes such as isolation, irritation, arrogance or retorting attitude of your teenager. In most of the cases teenagers loose interest in studies. They generally remain absent from school on various pretexts without their parent’s knowledge.

After identifying the problem follow simple Remedial measures,
•One make sure to dedicate daily minimum an hour to your teens from a month prior to examination till termination;
•Two make your child understand between your dreams and ambition, and;
•Three repeatedly assure your child that his life is more precious than anything else including exam results.

Once, you have implemented remedial measures, now take curing action to eradicate problem forever. Now, BST exercise under direct supervision of parent has to be implemented. Teenager has to be reassured that parent’s ambition is not at the cost of his life. Once, a child has been affected, thereafter, he requires regular attention of mother or father personal care. Only parents can cure their child at this stage. Do not put your child under drugs rather take him to some hill station and make him believe that what so ever he achieves in life, it will be accepted with open heart. If you leave it purely to medical or psychologist advises alone, rest assure you failed to be good parent.

I am sure that august readers would be able to follow various therapies, which I tried to chronically record to prevent loss of a teenagers live before adulthood. It is an important social responsibility of all of us to ensure that our teenagers become our founding pi

ccess, Mix and Encourage). Any family follows GAME rule, I assure my esteem readers that there would no teen suicide. First find time to Gossip and chat to create tension free environment at home, second let your child feel free to Access you, third frequently Mix up with your children as they grow and begin to treat friends and not children; and fourth the most important step of your teenagers maturity is to Encourage in all walks of life in sharing social responsibilities with pride. If you follow GAME rule, you would avoid IRC stages in your life.

Anyhow, wherever a teenager had committed suicide, I found that the parents had miserably failed in both Preventive and Identification (PI) stages. Despites of clear indications at home and school, the teenagers were neglected, thereby, abetting them to take extreme step of committing suicide. Infact, parents under the duress of meeting financial and social home and family responsibilities have ignored their children. How can such parents prevent their children from taking extreme steps of ending life? Such parents need to be observant at home. I advocate observing behavioral changes such as isolation, irritation, arrogance or retorting attitude of your teenager. In most of the cases teenagers loose interest in studies. They generally remain absent from school on various pretexts without their parent’s knowledge.

After identifying the problem follow simple Remedial measures,
•One make sure to dedicate daily minimum an hour to your teens from a month prior to examination till termination;
•Two make your child understand between your dreams and ambition, and;
•Three repeatedly assure your child that his life is more precious than anything else including exam results.

Once, you have implemented remedial measures, now take curing action to eradicate problem forever. Now, BST exercise under direct supervision of parent has to be implemented. Teenager has to be reassured that parent’s ambition is not at the cost of his life. Once, a child has been affected, thereafter, he requires regular attention of mother or father personal care. Only parents can cure their child at this stage. Do not put your child under drugs rather take him to some hill station and make him believe that what so ever he achieves in life, it will be accepted with open heart. If you leave it purely to medical or psychologist advises alone, rest assure you failed to be good parent.

I am sure that august readers would be able to follow various therapies, which I tried to chronically record to prevent loss of a teenagers live before adulthood. It is an important social responsibility of all of us to ensure that our teenagers become our founding pillars and propel the world into new directions. I would be considering my self fortunate enough, if this article manages to prevent even one suicide. Readers are requested to summit feedback.