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Add You - You, Too, Can Drive Anyone Crazy
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34. Why be SO negative all the time?
35. I just want to get past this phase and forget about it.
36. All of this takes time/money/commitment/focus/sweat from me and I’m squeezed!
37. You really upset and hurt me when you said…
38. Why do you leave me out?
39. Doesn’t my opinion matter to you?
40. You’re still not where I want you to be.
41. Can you hold off a little longer on those demands?
42. I’m trying my best not to be mean or nasty.
43. Sometimes, I end up shooting off my mouth before I think through what I should say!
44. I told you that I’m working on it!
45. What was I supposed to do under the circumstances?
46. You think WAY
Moving your company from a small office or a home to a larger office can be an exciting time but it can also be a very expensive time. Office furniture can be expensive and depending on the type of business you are running can inhibit your employee's energy and productivity. I have often found that walking into an office with neon lighting and gray cubicles on all side takes the energy out of me as soon as I move into the room. I feel this is to often the way that companies find solutions for their office needs. With a little creativity and some advanced planning for you move you can setup your office to run with as much efficiency as a traditional corporate atmosphere, and your employee's will be much more enthusiastic about coming into work.For the small business which has to provide for up to twenty employees I have seen several com
SLIPPERY SPEAK: THAT MAY BE WHAT YOU HEARD, BUT…
“That may be what you heard, I can’t argue with that, but that’s not what I said!” is slippery speak. “BUT I didn’t mean to…!” is another way to turn off a team or family member fast. Chilly, too, is “NOW that’s how it’s always been done around here!” Or, “There you go again pointing the finger of blame at my team!” And what about, “I don’t do IT all the time!”
ME-TYPE TALK
Take a listen and you will hear more “ME”-TYPE TALK excuses below. Have some fun relief…and listen for any of these excuses you hear yourself or others use today in the workplace or home space. Just add these to the “99 Ways to Turn People off Cold (Without Really Trying)” you got a chuckle from previously.
1. I meant to BUT I didn’t get around to it BECAUSE…
2. I know I avoid situations that make me uncomfortable.
3. I didn’t do it deliberately!
4. People act busier than they are!
5. Truthfully, I want to spend more time with you BUT…
6. Please don’t take this personally, BUT…
7. Can I tell you something without you getting mad?
8. I don’t think about bad things I can’t do anything about.
9. Why should I always be the one to check in and ask you how you feel?
10. Hey, when I’m not working, I want to chill out.
11. It was the right thing to do at the time.
12. You’re taking what I’m saying out of context.
13. I can only do so much!
14. I fell behind…so what do you want me to do or say?
15. I have no answer for that!
16. I’m doing everything in my power to fix IT!
17. You can try YOUR hand at IT if YOU want to!
18. I try to just put the past behind me and forget about it.
19. All of this takes time, you know!
20. I’m asking you a direct question and I expect a direct answer.
21. Why are you treating me this way? I wouldn’t do that to you!
22. Some things just don’t fall into place easily like you plan them to.
23. How many times do I have to tell you that I didn’t do it on purpose?!
24. Things are going to be O.K. from here on out if you stop getting all bent out of shape!
25. Your being WAY too sensitive about this.
26. Why can’t you believe me? It’s ALL going to be just fine!
27. It’ll get better…you’ll see…you’ve got my word on it!
28. Here’s the point…
29. I don’t do it on purpose to hurt you…you’ve got to get over IT!
30. This was a money factor that was out of my control.
31. I don’t want to talk about this any more!
32. I know this has to be hard for you to take SO…
33. I try to put it behind me as fast as I can…why can’t you do the same?
34. Why be SO negative all the time?
35. I just want to get past this phase and forget about it.
36. All of this takes time/money/commitment/focus/sweat from me and I’m squeezed!
37. You really upset and hurt me when you said…
38. Why do you leave me out?
39. Doesn’t my opinion matter to you?
40. You’re still not where I want you to be.
41. Can you hold off a little longer on those demands?
42. I’m trying my best not to be mean or nasty.
43. Sometimes, I end up shooting off my mouth before I think through what I should say!
44. I told you that I’m working on it!
45. What was I supposed to do under the circumstances?
46. You think WAY
Let me state from the outset that what follows most likely won’t make you rich, but there are ways to generate a sizable extra income by utilizing easily accessible tools that are readily available to everyone who has access to the internet. If you are reading this, then you obviously have access to the internet and most likely have your own website, whether non-commercial or otherwise. (What follows applies to commercial sites as well though the strategies of implementation will vary somewhat—but that is the subject of another article.)Strategy #1) Google is presently, by and large, the most popular search engine on the planet, but there is much more depth to Google than this. Google offers several easy-to-use marketing packages that can earn you, as the owner of web space, a nice auxiliary income. First and foremost is the Google
ME-TYPE TALK
Take a listen and you will hear more “ME”-TYPE TALK excuses below. Have some fun relief…and listen for any of these excuses you hear yourself or others use today in the workplace or home space. Just add these to the “99 Ways to Turn People off Cold (Without Really Trying)” you got a chuckle from previously.
1. I meant to BUT I didn’t get around to it BECAUSE…
2. I know I avoid situations that make me uncomfortable.
3. I didn’t do it deliberately!
4. People act busier than they are!
5. Truthfully, I want to spend more time with you BUT…
6. Please don’t take this personally, BUT…
7. Can I tell you something without you getting mad?
8. I don’t think about bad things I can’t do anything about.
9. Why should I always be the one to check in and ask you how you feel?
10. Hey, when I’m not working, I want to chill out.
11. It was the right thing to do at the time.
12. You’re taking what I’m saying out of context.
13. I can only do so much!
14. I fell behind…so what do you want me to do or say?
15. I have no answer for that!
16. I’m doing everything in my power to fix IT!
17. You can try YOUR hand at IT if YOU want to!
18. I try to just put the past behind me and forget about it.
19. All of this takes time, you know!
20. I’m asking you a direct question and I expect a direct answer.
21. Why are you treating me this way? I wouldn’t do that to you!
22. Some things just don’t fall into place easily like you plan them to.
23. How many times do I have to tell you that I didn’t do it on purpose?!
24. Things are going to be O.K. from here on out if you stop getting all bent out of shape!
25. Your being WAY too sensitive about this.
26. Why can’t you believe me? It’s ALL going to be just fine!
27. It’ll get better…you’ll see…you’ve got my word on it!
28. Here’s the point…
29. I don’t do it on purpose to hurt you…you’ve got to get over IT!
30. This was a money factor that was out of my control.
31. I don’t want to talk about this any more!
32. I know this has to be hard for you to take SO…
33. I try to put it behind me as fast as I can…why can’t you do the same?
34. Why be SO negative all the time?
35. I just want to get past this phase and forget about it.
36. All of this takes time/money/commitment/focus/sweat from me and I’m squeezed!
37. You really upset and hurt me when you said…
38. Why do you leave me out?
39. Doesn’t my opinion matter to you?
40. You’re still not where I want you to be.
41. Can you hold off a little longer on those demands?
42. I’m trying my best not to be mean or nasty.
43. Sometimes, I end up shooting off my mouth before I think through what I should say!
44. I told you that I’m working on it!
45. What was I supposed to do under the circumstances?
46. You think WAY
When developing or updating a marketing plan, knowing where to start is often a challenge. To better develop effective marketing strategies, begin by gathering information about both your business and the larger business environment (competition, trends, statistics, etc).Internally, the amount of information you gather about your own business will depend on your company size. Information can include business strategies and plans; company marketing plans; pricing; and income statements. Employee knowledge is also a valuable resource. As you gather information, if you at first turn to internal sources then expand your understanding through external resources you will do fine.External information about the business environment often takes the form of existing research, articles, competitive information, and industry news. While the
8. I don’t think about bad things I can’t do anything about.
9. Why should I always be the one to check in and ask you how you feel?
10. Hey, when I’m not working, I want to chill out.
11. It was the right thing to do at the time.
12. You’re taking what I’m saying out of context.
13. I can only do so much!
14. I fell behind…so what do you want me to do or say?
15. I have no answer for that!
16. I’m doing everything in my power to fix IT!
17. You can try YOUR hand at IT if YOU want to!
18. I try to just put the past behind me and forget about it.
19. All of this takes time, you know!
20. I’m asking you a direct question and I expect a direct answer.
21. Why are you treating me this way? I wouldn’t do that to you!
22. Some things just don’t fall into place easily like you plan them to.
23. How many times do I have to tell you that I didn’t do it on purpose?!
24. Things are going to be O.K. from here on out if you stop getting all bent out of shape!
25. Your being WAY too sensitive about this.
26. Why can’t you believe me? It’s ALL going to be just fine!
27. It’ll get better…you’ll see…you’ve got my word on it!
28. Here’s the point…
29. I don’t do it on purpose to hurt you…you’ve got to get over IT!
30. This was a money factor that was out of my control.
31. I don’t want to talk about this any more!
32. I know this has to be hard for you to take SO…
33. I try to put it behind me as fast as I can…why can’t you do the same?
34. Why be SO negative all the time?
35. I just want to get past this phase and forget about it.
36. All of this takes time/money/commitment/focus/sweat from me and I’m squeezed!
37. You really upset and hurt me when you said…
38. Why do you leave me out?
39. Doesn’t my opinion matter to you?
40. You’re still not where I want you to be.
41. Can you hold off a little longer on those demands?
42. I’m trying my best not to be mean or nasty.
43. Sometimes, I end up shooting off my mouth before I think through what I should say!
44. I told you that I’m working on it!
45. What was I supposed to do under the circumstances?
46. You think WAY
Peter Humleker had it made. As the general manager of a successful car dealership, he was earning an impressive income. The only problem? He hated what he was doing."I was making a living off of manipulating and misleading people, taking advantage of them with ugly games and lies,” Peter said. “It’s how I was taught to make sales, and I was very good at it.”Eventually, his feelings of success were overcome by feelings of remorse.“I had to get out of that business,” he said. “No paycheck amount is worth the guilt, lies and not being able to look at myself in the mirror.”So at the age of 40 and with a family to support, Peter made one of the scariest--and best--decisions of his life: he quit his job and began searching for a new career.“I was sick and tired of sales,” he said. “But I wanted to get a job where
22. Some things just don’t fall into place easily like you plan them to.
23. How many times do I have to tell you that I didn’t do it on purpose?!
24. Things are going to be O.K. from here on out if you stop getting all bent out of shape!
25. Your being WAY too sensitive about this.
26. Why can’t you believe me? It’s ALL going to be just fine!
27. It’ll get better…you’ll see…you’ve got my word on it!
28. Here’s the point…
29. I don’t do it on purpose to hurt you…you’ve got to get over IT!
30. This was a money factor that was out of my control.
31. I don’t want to talk about this any more!
32. I know this has to be hard for you to take SO…
33. I try to put it behind me as fast as I can…why can’t you do the same?
34. Why be SO negative all the time?
35. I just want to get past this phase and forget about it.
36. All of this takes time/money/commitment/focus/sweat from me and I’m squeezed!
37. You really upset and hurt me when you said…
38. Why do you leave me out?
39. Doesn’t my opinion matter to you?
40. You’re still not where I want you to be.
41. Can you hold off a little longer on those demands?
42. I’m trying my best not to be mean or nasty.
43. Sometimes, I end up shooting off my mouth before I think through what I should say!
44. I told you that I’m working on it!
45. What was I supposed to do under the circumstances?
46. You think WAY
Whether you are graduating from college, returning to the work force, or contemplating a career change, career fairs have lots to offer a job seeker. Following a few basic guidelines can help you make the most of the experience and maximize some great networking opportunities.Dress as you would for a job interview. The interactions you have with prospective employers at a job fair are likely to be brief, and first impressions count. Put your best foot forward with proper attire, a smile, and a confident hand shake. Also remember your own promotional materials, and a professional looking case to hold them as well as the information you collect.Come prepared. Bring copies of your up-to-date resume, and be ready to talk about yourself. What kind of positions are you interested in? How does your previous experience relate? Decide ah
34. Why be SO negative all the time?
35. I just want to get past this phase and forget about it.
36. All of this takes time/money/commitment/focus/sweat from me and I’m squeezed!
37. You really upset and hurt me when you said…
38. Why do you leave me out?
39. Doesn’t my opinion matter to you?
40. You’re still not where I want you to be.
41. Can you hold off a little longer on those demands?
42. I’m trying my best not to be mean or nasty.
43. Sometimes, I end up shooting off my mouth before I think through what I should say!
44. I told you that I’m working on it!
45. What was I supposed to do under the circumstances?
46. You think WAY too much!
47. It’s not THAT deep…your taking this way too seriously!
48. What about…What IF you tried…
49. I just want the stress to go away.
50. I just want to set the record straight!
51. Are you sure you’ve thought this through?
52. You’re not the person I thought you were.
53. You disappoint me!
54. I’ve got to vent my feelings…My feelings are my feelings!
55. SO what’s the plan? Who’s responsible? Who’s in charge?
56. There’s no discussing it with you when you’re mind is made up.
57. What do you want me to say about that that would satisfy you?
58. You’ve got to work with me here, and give a little bit back to me.
59. You’ve got to understand where I’m coming from as well!
60. You should think more with your head, and less from your heart!
61. I feel somewhat selfish…but who isn’t?!
62. You need to quit avoiding the topic and take responsibility for your life.
63. I just don’t like talking about serious stuff!
64. I don’t want to hurt their feelings by being too blunt!
65. I don’t like dealing with moody people and messy emotions.
66. I suck it up and forget about it.
67. Where are we goin’ from here? Where are we headed? Who’s got the map?
68. I don’t mean to tell you what to do BUT IF I were you…
69. You over-analyze everything and can be your own worst enemy, sometimes!
70. You and I only like the ‘feel good’ emotions, right?!
71. What can I do about it? How should I know what to say or do?
72. I’ve got to be honest with you here: Uncomfortable emotions, well, make me uncomfortable.
73. Did I say that? Or is that what YOU heard me say?!
74. That may be what you heard, I can’t argue with that, but that’s not what I said.
75. IF I don’t do IT…then who’s going to do it, eh?!
76. Why do I always get shoved into the position of being in control of everything?
77. Do you know what I’m saying here? Don’t you get it?
78. What was I supposed to do? Pretend like IT didn’t happen?!
79. I always try to do what’s right, and let my conscious be my guide.
80. Does that make any sense to you?
81. Why do you have to re-visit everything, again and again?!
82. There’s certain things that have to be done, and I don’t see you volunteering!
EMPATHIZER APPLES VS. INSTIGATOR ORANGES
As I previously said, there are many interesting differences that exist between the Empathizer “apples” and the Instigator “oranges.” Neither fruit group is better than the other, and both have their place, strengths and pits.
Any way you slice that apple and orange, you can’t compare apples and oranges. When you begin to “see and understand” that both fruits operate in the world according to a “life view” which is alterable…then you are free to travel to new places in all of your interpersonal and inner-personal relations.
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