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Add You - 11 Tips for Dealing With Difficult People
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5 – Take a break. Often challenging situations can bog down. Stepping away from the situation can allow more cr
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One certainty in life is you will not always see eye to eye with everyone. The purpose of this article is to share practical ideas on dealing with difficult people.
1 – I hate the title of this article. The first step is to reframe the situation. If you think you are dealing with a difficult person, it will be difficult. If you think you are dealing with a challenge, it can be invigorating.
2 - Use the Stephen Covey rule: “seek first to understand.” Often the simple act of understanding the person will be cathartic enough to have the person deal with you civilly. People have a need to be understood and if they feel understood, they tend to be easier to work with. If you truly understand the other person, often you will see a solution to the challenge or will have empathy for them and not feel as threatened.
3 – Leave stubbornness (and ego) at the door. Most cases I have seen where someone is very challenging, it is because both of the parties are set on their point of view.
4 – Be Zen. If you cannot change the situation, live with it. Not only tolerate it but do not stress about what cannot be changed.
5 – Take a break. Often challenging situations can bog down. Stepping away from the situation can allow more cre
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1 – I hate the title of this article. The first step is to reframe the situation. If you think you are dealing with a difficult person, it will be difficult. If you think you are dealing with a challenge, it can be invigorating.
2 - Use the Stephen Covey rule: “seek first to understand.” Often the simple act of understanding the person will be cathartic enough to have the person deal with you civilly. People have a need to be understood and if they feel understood, they tend to be easier to work with. If you truly understand the other person, often you will see a solution to the challenge or will have empathy for them and not feel as threatened.
3 – Leave stubbornness (and ego) at the door. Most cases I have seen where someone is very challenging, it is because both of the parties are set on their point of view.
4 – Be Zen. If you cannot change the situation, live with it. Not only tolerate it but do not stress about what cannot be changed.
5 – Take a break. Often challenging situations can bog down. Stepping away from the situation can allow more cr
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2 - Use the Stephen Covey rule: “seek first to understand.” Often the simple act of understanding the person will be cathartic enough to have the person deal with you civilly. People have a need to be understood and if they feel understood, they tend to be easier to work with. If you truly understand the other person, often you will see a solution to the challenge or will have empathy for them and not feel as threatened.
3 – Leave stubbornness (and ego) at the door. Most cases I have seen where someone is very challenging, it is because both of the parties are set on their point of view.
4 – Be Zen. If you cannot change the situation, live with it. Not only tolerate it but do not stress about what cannot be changed.
5 – Take a break. Often challenging situations can bog down. Stepping away from the situation can allow more cr
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3 – Leave stubbornness (and ego) at the door. Most cases I have seen where someone is very challenging, it is because both of the parties are set on their point of view.
4 – Be Zen. If you cannot change the situation, live with it. Not only tolerate it but do not stress about what cannot be changed.
5 – Take a break. Often challenging situations can bog down. Stepping away from the situation can allow more cr
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4 – Be Zen. If you cannot change the situation, live with it. Not only tolerate it but do not stress about what cannot be changed.
5 – Take a break. Often challenging situations can bog down. Stepping away from the situation can allow more creativity. It can also allow for a cooling off by both parties. Some of the best breaks include deep breathing, exercise (take a walk) and of course the longer the time, the better.
6 – Ask yourself why you think this person is a challenge. Often the reasons tie to interpreting cues wrong. For example, I do business with an individual who uses a lot of foul language. I find this somewhat offensive and it tends to raise my stress level. When I look at the situation, his first language is not English. He likely does not have the same associations with swear words as I do. Furthermore, they are only words so perhaps I need to look at myself. Does it really matter?
7 – Be creative. This ties into the stubbornness. Often creative solutions can solve an impasse. Take a win-win negotiations course. Much conflict is actually about problem solving and negotiation. Much of win win negotiating is about creativity.
8 – Ask “what about this person or situation is good?” There will always be something about everyone and every situation that is positive.
9 – Ask the How question. How could you solve this challenge? How could dealing with this person be
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