Dr. Carle, “It shows that you care enough about him to invest some of your time into getting to know him better.”

Once you start reading, you’ll see that there are plenty of quick reference books on interfaith dating. That means you’re not the first girl to stress over the church invitation. Jennifer Block Martin, co-author of What to Do When You're Dating a Jew says, “[We] broke down all th

If your newfound love has asked you to attend church, temple or other place of worship unfamiliar to you, you probably have lots of questions: “What do I wear? Will it be obvious I’m an outsider? Will I have to stand up and identify myself as a visitor?” But most of all you’re probably wondering, “What does this say about our relationship?” This is definitely more complicated than when you had to pick out your third-date restaurant.

There’s no doubt about it, the interfaith date is a big step. And it either means that he’s serious about you or serious about his religion. Or both.

Take a Step Back.

This is a great time to evaluate how much you like this guy. If you say “yes” to accompany him to his place of worship, you’re also saying “yes” to him—which could mean exclusivity or even a serious commitment. If that’s what you have on your mind, great. If not, you may need to speak now or forever hold your peace.

Something else to consider are your own feelings towards religion. Dr. Gilda Carle, author of Don't Bet on the Prince says, “This guy’s presence in your life could be a terrific catalyst for you to jump-start a deeper and more grateful mindset for all the things you have going for you. Remember that relationships are not as much about the other person as they are about your own growth.” So even if you don’t decide to convert, it could still be a good learning experience.

Study Up.

Speaking of learning, brushing up on his religion before you go to his place of worship might make you feel more comfortable. “Homework always helps,” says Dr. Carle, “It shows that you care enough about him to invest some of your time into getting to know him better.”

Once you start reading, you’ll see that there are plenty of quick reference books on interfaith dating. That means you’re not the first girl to stress over the church invitation. Jennifer Block Martin, co-author of What to Do When You're Dating a Jew says, “[We] broke down all the

pick out your third-date restaurant.

There’s no doubt about it, the interfaith date is a big step. And it either means that he’s serious about you or serious about his religion. Or both.

Take a Step Back.

This is a great time to evaluate how much you like this guy. If you say “yes” to accompany him to his place of worship, you’re also saying “yes” to him—which could mean exclusivity or even a serious commitment. If that’s what you have on your mind, great. If not, you may need to speak now or forever hold your peace.

Something else to consider are your own feelings towards religion. Dr. Gilda Carle, author of Don't Bet on the Prince says, “This guy’s presence in your life could be a terrific catalyst for you to jump-start a deeper and more grateful mindset for all the things you have going for you. Remember that relationships are not as much about the other person as they are about your own growth.” So even if you don’t decide to convert, it could still be a good learning experience.

Study Up.

Speaking of learning, brushing up on his religion before you go to his place of worship might make you feel more comfortable. “Homework always helps,” says Dr. Carle, “It shows that you care enough about him to invest some of your time into getting to know him better.”

Once you start reading, you’ll see that there are plenty of quick reference books on interfaith dating. That means you’re not the first girl to stress over the church invitation. Jennifer Block Martin, co-author of What to Do When You're Dating a Jew says, “[We] broke down all th

ity or even a serious commitment. If that’s what you have on your mind, great. If not, you may need to speak now or forever hold your peace.

Something else to consider are your own feelings towards religion. Dr. Gilda Carle, author of Don't Bet on the Prince says, “This guy’s presence in your life could be a terrific catalyst for you to jump-start a deeper and more grateful mindset for all the things you have going for you. Remember that relationships are not as much about the other person as they are about your own growth.” So even if you don’t decide to convert, it could still be a good learning experience.

Study Up.

Speaking of learning, brushing up on his religion before you go to his place of worship might make you feel more comfortable. “Homework always helps,” says Dr. Carle, “It shows that you care enough about him to invest some of your time into getting to know him better.”

Once you start reading, you’ll see that there are plenty of quick reference books on interfaith dating. That means you’re not the first girl to stress over the church invitation. Jennifer Block Martin, co-author of What to Do When You're Dating a Jew says, “[We] broke down all th

e things you have going for you. Remember that relationships are not as much about the other person as they are about your own growth.” So even if you don’t decide to convert, it could still be a good learning experience.

Study Up.

Speaking of learning, brushing up on his religion before you go to his place of worship might make you feel more comfortable. “Homework always helps,” says Dr. Carle, “It shows that you care enough about him to invest some of your time into getting to know him better.”

Once you start reading, you’ll see that there are plenty of quick reference books on interfaith dating. That means you’re not the first girl to stress over the church invitation. Jennifer Block Martin, co-author of What to Do When You're Dating a Jew says, “[We] broke down all th

Dr. Carle, “It shows that you care enough about him to invest some of your time into getting to know him better.”

Once you start reading, you’ll see that there are plenty of quick reference books on interfaith dating. That means you’re not the first girl to stress over the church invitation. Jennifer Block Martin, co-author of What to Do When You're Dating a Jew says, “[We] broke down all the Jewish holidays into crib sheets — what it is, when, how long it lasts, where (home or temple), why, other names for the holiday, level of importance, food, props, and what to bring.” If you pick up a handy book like this, you’ll save time and your sanity.

Dress to Impress.

“The first time I went to Christmas Eve mass with my boyfriend’s [now husband’s] family, I ended up being totally over-dressed,” says Martin. But being a bit over-dressed is definitely better than showing skin. So, first try asking your man what you should wear. Then, since most guys never really know, just pick out the most conservative outfit in your closet.

Open your Mind.

Brooke K. of Los Angeles has had her fair share of interfaith relationships. “From experience,” she says, “I've decided that it's best to seek out a partner who has similar spiritual beliefs, so that there's no more Sunday confusion.”

Sure, if you meet someone who worships the same god as you, it definitely makes things easier. But can a couple with different religious beliefs find a common aisle to walk down? Dr. Carle says, “It’s not mandatory that a couple share the same religious beliefs, but it is mandatory that a couple share mutual respect for each other’s beliefs. Respect in the religious arena tends to spill out into all other arenas. And respect is the main secret behind successful relationships.”

Have a Little Faith.

Be ready because once you’ve done the interfaith date, you may have to make bigger decisions about where the two of you will spend your weekend mornings. Maybe he sho