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    t what most

    communication breakdowns are? Conversation wars that end up shooting

    old ammunition back and forth at one another? The problem there is

    that noone ever wins that battle. All that is really happening is that

    both parties have just taken an equal part in adding more blocks to

    the wall of communication breakdown. Both sides lose.

    Communication can only really work when neither party is being

    selfish, meaning that if one person is feeling that they are being

    attacked with every word that is coming their way, and it is all about

    hurting them. They have automatically closed an open door without even

    realizing it. Low self-esteem will surely make a person feel this way.

    Or if one partner gets carried away and will not stop to let the other

    party absorb what was just said, this too is a typical selfish act.

    That is why it is important that we take turns with each other and try

    to understand what is actually being said. If one partner misunderstands, and you are aware of that, then you are

    responsible to stop and work wit

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    Matters of the heart are a true mystery to all involved. In order to

    make a commitment to a relationship, it takes strength and trust in

    another. When we trust our partner and we receive trust back, it is a

    very nice feeling. One should never betray or play games with that

    trust. Those games usually get caught, and a broken trust will surely

    create a huge wall of communication breakdown. When you truly trust

    another, you are opening your heart and mind to an outsider. You are

    at this time very vulnerable for just about any kind of emotional

    attack. Confusion and misunderstandings are amongst those emotions

    now.

    This is why communication is so important. It is the key to opening

    all those doors. Without it, the doors will remained locked and one

    will have to work very hard to break through. It is much more

    productive to just talk, listen, and understand your partner. I am not

    saying that this will be easy, but with love in your heart, it can be

    done. The end results will definitely be more lasting. For every

    forced door, there will be a negative memory to try to bypass in the

    future. When doors are open with love, patience and respect, they will

    have only good memories to savour and smile upon in the future. Those

    are extremely important in tearing down those walls.

    Communication is a very important act between two people. It even has

    more importance than sex to keep a relationship building stronger. In

    order to to communicate, it takes two willing and open minds. If one

    mind is closed, all that will happen is the other will grow in

    confusion and frustration.

    Some of us worry about the ABC`s in life and others worry about the

    EF&G`s in life. Thats OK. It is what adds the color to our black

    and white life with each other. Yes it would be easier if we all

    worried and thought about things equally. It would be less confusing.

    But only for a short time. Soon enough our complacency with each other

    would get "OLD". It would be as if we could read each others minds,

    but what would be the point if we thought and worried the same.

    A little bit of controversy is a much needed thing in a relationship.

    It helps us to get to know another part of our partner and also our

    own selves. When we open our hearts to another, only then will we

    offer this part of us. Until then it isn't necessary. One very

    important thing about a person sharing their inner most fears and

    disappointments is never, ever, try to stifle that person or walk away

    in frustration. If someone is that open with you, embrace it and hear

    them out. Never belittle their concerns as being immature or

    nonsensical because you would never have those concerns. Remember the

    ABC`s, we all think differently. Only then can you both communicate,

    otherwise you will add another block to the wall of communication

    breakdown.

    When we are forced into silence, we begin to build walls. If we are

    not allowed to voice our inner feelings or disappointments, we will

    quickly stop trying to communicate forever. Once the first brick has

    then been set, the foundation of the wall to communication breakdown

    will rise up very fast. Trust me, there is not a single relationship

    that does not carry or tear down a brick to the wall of communication.

    There are many levels of relationships. Some of us are put into

    situations that take much courage to see past our hurts and

    disappointments. Just remember what brought your relationship together

    in the beginning. Many times we will be forced to return to page one

    and start from there. With open minds and nonjudgmental hearts we can

    get past many mistakes and problems that will arise in a relationship.

    Another favorite, but not so good habit that we as humans create, is

    to regurgitate things over and over again. I use the word

    "regurgitate", because that's how I view having things being tossed

    back in your face. Have you ever noticed that another lovely habit

    (NOT) that we as humans have is to only dig up the dirt when we are in

    the heat of anger? We do this time and time again, because we already

    know that these things are a guaranteed hit. It is a very cheap and

    bullish way to try to win a conversation. Is that not what most

    communication breakdowns are? Conversation wars that end up shooting

    old ammunition back and forth at one another? The problem there is

    that noone ever wins that battle. All that is really happening is that

    both parties have just taken an equal part in adding more blocks to

    the wall of communication breakdown. Both sides lose.

    Communication can only really work when neither party is being

    selfish, meaning that if one person is feeling that they are being

    attacked with every word that is coming their way, and it is all about

    hurting them. They have automatically closed an open door without even

    realizing it. Low self-esteem will surely make a person feel this way.

    Or if one partner gets carried away and will not stop to let the other

    party absorb what was just said, this too is a typical selfish act.

    That is why it is important that we take turns with each other and try

    to understand what is actually being said. If one partner misunderstands, and you are aware of that, then you are

    responsible to stop and work with

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    there will be a negative memory to try to bypass in the

    future. When doors are open with love, patience and respect, they will

    have only good memories to savour and smile upon in the future. Those

    are extremely important in tearing down those walls.

    Communication is a very important act between two people. It even has

    more importance than sex to keep a relationship building stronger. In

    order to to communicate, it takes two willing and open minds. If one

    mind is closed, all that will happen is the other will grow in

    confusion and frustration.

    Some of us worry about the ABC`s in life and others worry about the

    EF&G`s in life. Thats OK. It is what adds the color to our black

    and white life with each other. Yes it would be easier if we all

    worried and thought about things equally. It would be less confusing.

    But only for a short time. Soon enough our complacency with each other

    would get "OLD". It would be as if we could read each others minds,

    but what would be the point if we thought and worried the same.

    A little bit of controversy is a much needed thing in a relationship.

    It helps us to get to know another part of our partner and also our

    own selves. When we open our hearts to another, only then will we

    offer this part of us. Until then it isn't necessary. One very

    important thing about a person sharing their inner most fears and

    disappointments is never, ever, try to stifle that person or walk away

    in frustration. If someone is that open with you, embrace it and hear

    them out. Never belittle their concerns as being immature or

    nonsensical because you would never have those concerns. Remember the

    ABC`s, we all think differently. Only then can you both communicate,

    otherwise you will add another block to the wall of communication

    breakdown.

    When we are forced into silence, we begin to build walls. If we are

    not allowed to voice our inner feelings or disappointments, we will

    quickly stop trying to communicate forever. Once the first brick has

    then been set, the foundation of the wall to communication breakdown

    will rise up very fast. Trust me, there is not a single relationship

    that does not carry or tear down a brick to the wall of communication.

    There are many levels of relationships. Some of us are put into

    situations that take much courage to see past our hurts and

    disappointments. Just remember what brought your relationship together

    in the beginning. Many times we will be forced to return to page one

    and start from there. With open minds and nonjudgmental hearts we can

    get past many mistakes and problems that will arise in a relationship.

    Another favorite, but not so good habit that we as humans create, is

    to regurgitate things over and over again. I use the word

    "regurgitate", because that's how I view having things being tossed

    back in your face. Have you ever noticed that another lovely habit

    (NOT) that we as humans have is to only dig up the dirt when we are in

    the heat of anger? We do this time and time again, because we already

    know that these things are a guaranteed hit. It is a very cheap and

    bullish way to try to win a conversation. Is that not what most

    communication breakdowns are? Conversation wars that end up shooting

    old ammunition back and forth at one another? The problem there is

    that noone ever wins that battle. All that is really happening is that

    both parties have just taken an equal part in adding more blocks to

    the wall of communication breakdown. Both sides lose.

    Communication can only really work when neither party is being

    selfish, meaning that if one person is feeling that they are being

    attacked with every word that is coming their way, and it is all about

    hurting them. They have automatically closed an open door without even

    realizing it. Low self-esteem will surely make a person feel this way.

    Or if one partner gets carried away and will not stop to let the other

    party absorb what was just said, this too is a typical selfish act.

    That is why it is important that we take turns with each other and try

    to understand what is actually being said. If one partner misunderstands, and you are aware of that, then you are

    responsible to stop and work wit

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    controversy is a much needed thing in a relationship.

    It helps us to get to know another part of our partner and also our

    own selves. When we open our hearts to another, only then will we

    offer this part of us. Until then it isn't necessary. One very

    important thing about a person sharing their inner most fears and

    disappointments is never, ever, try to stifle that person or walk away

    in frustration. If someone is that open with you, embrace it and hear

    them out. Never belittle their concerns as being immature or

    nonsensical because you would never have those concerns. Remember the

    ABC`s, we all think differently. Only then can you both communicate,

    otherwise you will add another block to the wall of communication

    breakdown.

    When we are forced into silence, we begin to build walls. If we are

    not allowed to voice our inner feelings or disappointments, we will

    quickly stop trying to communicate forever. Once the first brick has

    then been set, the foundation of the wall to communication breakdown

    will rise up very fast. Trust me, there is not a single relationship

    that does not carry or tear down a brick to the wall of communication.

    There are many levels of relationships. Some of us are put into

    situations that take much courage to see past our hurts and

    disappointments. Just remember what brought your relationship together

    in the beginning. Many times we will be forced to return to page one

    and start from there. With open minds and nonjudgmental hearts we can

    get past many mistakes and problems that will arise in a relationship.

    Another favorite, but not so good habit that we as humans create, is

    to regurgitate things over and over again. I use the word

    "regurgitate", because that's how I view having things being tossed

    back in your face. Have you ever noticed that another lovely habit

    (NOT) that we as humans have is to only dig up the dirt when we are in

    the heat of anger? We do this time and time again, because we already

    know that these things are a guaranteed hit. It is a very cheap and

    bullish way to try to win a conversation. Is that not what most

    communication breakdowns are? Conversation wars that end up shooting

    old ammunition back and forth at one another? The problem there is

    that noone ever wins that battle. All that is really happening is that

    both parties have just taken an equal part in adding more blocks to

    the wall of communication breakdown. Both sides lose.

    Communication can only really work when neither party is being

    selfish, meaning that if one person is feeling that they are being

    attacked with every word that is coming their way, and it is all about

    hurting them. They have automatically closed an open door without even

    realizing it. Low self-esteem will surely make a person feel this way.

    Or if one partner gets carried away and will not stop to let the other

    party absorb what was just said, this too is a typical selfish act.

    That is why it is important that we take turns with each other and try

    to understand what is actually being said. If one partner misunderstands, and you are aware of that, then you are

    responsible to stop and work wit

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    ust me, there is not a single relationship

    that does not carry or tear down a brick to the wall of communication.

    There are many levels of relationships. Some of us are put into

    situations that take much courage to see past our hurts and

    disappointments. Just remember what brought your relationship together

    in the beginning. Many times we will be forced to return to page one

    and start from there. With open minds and nonjudgmental hearts we can

    get past many mistakes and problems that will arise in a relationship.

    Another favorite, but not so good habit that we as humans create, is

    to regurgitate things over and over again. I use the word

    "regurgitate", because that's how I view having things being tossed

    back in your face. Have you ever noticed that another lovely habit

    (NOT) that we as humans have is to only dig up the dirt when we are in

    the heat of anger? We do this time and time again, because we already

    know that these things are a guaranteed hit. It is a very cheap and

    bullish way to try to win a conversation. Is that not what most

    communication breakdowns are? Conversation wars that end up shooting

    old ammunition back and forth at one another? The problem there is

    that noone ever wins that battle. All that is really happening is that

    both parties have just taken an equal part in adding more blocks to

    the wall of communication breakdown. Both sides lose.

    Communication can only really work when neither party is being

    selfish, meaning that if one person is feeling that they are being

    attacked with every word that is coming their way, and it is all about

    hurting them. They have automatically closed an open door without even

    realizing it. Low self-esteem will surely make a person feel this way.

    Or if one partner gets carried away and will not stop to let the other

    party absorb what was just said, this too is a typical selfish act.

    That is why it is important that we take turns with each other and try

    to understand what is actually being said. If one partner misunderstands, and you are aware of that, then you are

    responsible to stop and work wit

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    t what most

    communication breakdowns are? Conversation wars that end up shooting

    old ammunition back and forth at one another? The problem there is

    that noone ever wins that battle. All that is really happening is that

    both parties have just taken an equal part in adding more blocks to

    the wall of communication breakdown. Both sides lose.

    Communication can only really work when neither party is being

    selfish, meaning that if one person is feeling that they are being

    attacked with every word that is coming their way, and it is all about

    hurting them. They have automatically closed an open door without even

    realizing it. Low self-esteem will surely make a person feel this way.

    Or if one partner gets carried away and will not stop to let the other

    party absorb what was just said, this too is a typical selfish act.

    That is why it is important that we take turns with each other and try

    to understand what is actually being said. If one partner misunderstands, and you are aware of that, then you are

    responsible to stop and work with them in a loving manner to get them

    to open that door. It is vital to not assume anything until the other

    person has completely finished.

    This is why the power of writing is so productive. One person writes

    his/her thoughts down, uninterrupted, without fear of being derailed

    from their thoughts and with the ability to just get it all of their

    chest, so to speak. People pay big bucks to be told just this, so

    listen up! If you find that your wall of communication breakdown is

    starting to build, then this habit of writing letters to each other is

    a very good way to bypass the wall.

    Always reread your letter before handing it over. That too helps you

    to maybe erase a thought or two that was purely emotional when writing

    it. We all know that old saying, "I did`t mean that, I was just upset

    at the time". Well there's a hind site tip for all of us struggling

    with that d**n wall of communication breakdown.

    Do you ever feel that you are so far under that wall, that you will

    never be able to communicate with your partner again and just want to

    run away? Before you run away, think about exactly what and why you

    are running from. Are you running from a partner that could very well

    be the best thing that ever happened to you? Or are you in fact

    running away from your own issues that you refuse to deal with?

    Remember this, if it is your own demons that you fear, you will run

    forever. You will never be happy. You will always blame your

    relationship or your partner for your downfalls. Running away is a cop

    out. It is a true weakness in character. To stay and fight and trust

    that your partner will understand your troubles is a true sign of

    courage and one that will be greatly respected.

    We all have our pasts. We must understand that yes, they did happen

    and that is what they are, past issues. To have your past continue to

    come between yourself and your partner is a bad thing. Whether it is a

    person or just an experience, it should be left in the past. This is

    where good communication comes to the rescue yet again. When we are

    made aware of certain issues in our partners pasts, it sometimes makes

    them easier to understand and deal with if they happen to come about

    again. If we are left in the dark and we have to meet up with

    another's past and it is not a very good experience, we will be weak

    in defense and our ability to communicate positively will be almost

    non-existent.

    Some people fear their partners pasts, viewing them as a threat to

    their own relationship. This is normal and should be dealt with

    through love and understanding. Again we must communicate with each

    other and not look down on anyone for their honesty and true fears.

    That wall of communication breakdown will never completely come down

    if we skip a few blocks and ignore them, or handle them so wrong that

    they double in size. A good strong relationship will endure most any

    mistake made by humans as long as both partners are willing and honest

    with each other.

    ********************************************

    "To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different

    in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide

    to our communication with others."

    - Anthony Robbins

    "Words are a wonderful form of communication, but they will never

    replace kisses and hugzzz"

    -Dorothy

    "Some think that love is all flowers and good times, but I think that

    love is more than just that. Love is the bad, as well as the better,

    not lived alone, but a journey together. Something that only the

    closest can share, with communication, respect,"

    -Anonymous

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