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Add You - Answers to the Most Common Relationship Questions: Excerpt from Stop Being the String Along
There was a time in the not so distant past when the majority of companies had very clear cut tax options. They were guided by a set of local, State, and National tax laws. They owed their taxes and they had to pay them. There were creative ways to reduce their burden, but it still remained fairly simplistic compared to today’s global market situation. Ecommerce, or business over the internet, has led to the idea of onshore versus offshore tax implications. Onshore, in this case, refers to a business whose ownership is located in the same physical location as their operations. Offshore refers to the rest of the World.The unavoidable fact here is that there are certain jurisdictions around the world that might tend to have a much more favorable tax structure than home. It is important to accept that this is the prime reason for going offshore to do business. The offshore locales might talk of other things, but it is the taxes that make or break an onshore/offshore decision every time. Since Ecommerce operates in this unreal electronic world, physical location has become less of an issue. The old adage of location, location, location, no longer means the same thing as it did a mere generation ago.Some people seem to believe that the world of Ecommerce is a free and unregulated zone where anything goes and there are few or any consequences. This is not true, and each passing day makes it less true as internet regulation continues to increase. Tax planning from an Ecommerce point of view can not be seen as tax avoidance as much as it is tax reduction. This is why tax planning becomes such an important element of Ecommerce. It just is not so simple anymore. The possibilities to reduce tax burdens and increase profitability are staggering and enticing, but they are also a mine field of potential risk. The advice and guidance of professional tax experts is an absolute must to navigate this mine field properly.The Credit Card Merchant Account that you use in your Ecommerce business is an example of how proper tax planning lays a foundation for prudent business decisions. The Offshore Merchant Account could very well be one of
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Us
There's no need to do an accurate research to find that nowadays laptop usage trends is tend to raise because of many aspects that is offered by laptop such as portability, mobility, and of course the price that is very competitive now compared with PC.For ones who usually work with a PC, working with laptop is rather different. Specially in the keyboard layout, and in the mouse .. laptop has its own 'mouse', whether it's called touchpad, trackpoint, or trackball.Touchpad, trackpoint, or trackball usage is a kind of different from mouse, users who is newly uses a these thing will need one day - two days up to a week to get used with this peripheral. To use touchpad, users need to have a sensitive feeling on his/her finger(s), a light accidental press plus slide on the touchpad can lead to a drag a file, a browser, execute a program, or a click to a banner advertising.If the new laptop users always connected to internet, imagine how often they will accidentally click a banner advertising, and how much is the money converted from that accidental clicks, that's good from publisher site's because they will gain an extra click from accident, but of course sad for advertisers perspective, they'll lost extra money.So, does your Click Thru Rate raise nowadays? Maybe that's because a laptop usage trend.My advise Train your finger to get used with touchpad offline. If you accidentally click a banner advertising, press backspace as soon as possible. Don't too often visiting your own site if you use laptop, you might do an accidental click to an advertising, and that's hurt, you might be banned for clicking your own ads.
QUESTION:
What to do if one person in the marriage grows spiritually and the other stays the same and refuses to acknowledge the other person’s beliefs as right for them? My husband thinks that my study of metaphysics is just temporary and that I will come back to his religion. I don’t know how to handle this, but the issue involves every aspect of our relationship. I don’t feel connected in any sense except by our two small children, aged 4 and 2.
ANSWER:
It is vital that you continue to follow your truth with respect to your spiritual growth. No one has the right to judge, criticize, or coerce you to follow his religious or spiritual preferences. This is not up for debate. You do not have to convince your husband or seek approval from him or from anyone else regarding your personal truth, spiritual values, or beliefs. Quite frankly, it is no one’s business but your own. So I would advise you to ask yourself why you are staying in a relationship when the only connection you feel is through your children. If you feel the relationship is not satisfying and if you feel that your personal and spiritual growth are not being honored, it is perfectly okay to remove yourself from criticism, misery, and condemnation from the man you are sharing your (unhappy) life with.
Alternatively, you can stand in your truth and state that your spiritual growth will never be judged or dictated to by any other human being, and ask your husband to accept you for who you are, despite his differing views. Ask him if he would like it if you tried to dictate his religious preferences. You can ask him to honor who you are, and if he refuses to do so, then you do have the option to end the relationship that is more hurtful than supportive. You deserve respect on all levels. Please remember that.
QUESTION:
After 28 years in a dysfunctional marriage, I finally divorced my husband. That was 14 months ago. Now we are both changing and are back together, realizing that we both needed to change to become healthier people. With God’s blessings, hopefully, do you think we can become what we both need for ourselves and for one another?
ANSWER:
Absolutely! This is actually fantastic to hear. When two people love each other and realize that they both need to take personal responsibility to heal and evolve on all levels of personal growth, when each partner is committed to his own personal growth and supportive of his partner’s process, this is a gift.
Our greatest growth in relationships comes from being in relationships, not in isolation. Always share honestly. Always be true to self and have the courage to be real with your partner. You can never go wrong.
QUESTION:
How can you use your intuition to figure out where you should move to, to meet your partner, if you are currently single? I am going to move from the town I’ve been living in for 25 years and want to know how I can figure out where I should move to.
ANSWER:
Dear One, when you move to another town because you want to live there, to enhance your own life, and for no other reason, you will attract someone who is living his or her truth as well, rather than searching for a partner. The key here is in attracting by living your life for you rather than searching to fill a void. You will find that when you least expect it, someone who mirrors where you are within yourself will pop right into your life. So thrive and create the best life you can. Passionately fill your days and nights with all you love to do, and you will attract someone who is living his or her life that way, someone who will mirror you.
QUESTION:
How will I know when I am truly ready to be in a relationship, after not being in one for over eight years? I quit trying after my last relationship turned out to be just like my ex-husband, who was an alcoholic, used cocaine, and went into violent rages. I was severely abused by my natural father, sexually, emotionally, and physically . . . then sexually molested by my brother, brother-in-law, and stepfather (who also beat us). I know from counseling that my relationships with men were my way of trying to “fix” my father/male role models. I think I’m not ready to be in a relationship yet because I feel that I have nothing to offer. I am 200 lbs. overweight and have no teeth. I am also in severe pain most of the time because of fibromyalgia and lower back pain from a fall several years ago. To lose weight I need to exercise, but I am in so much pain that it’s almost impossible. I sometimes feel overwhelmed by all of this and discouraged, but I keep going. I am also an insomniac, and when I do happen to fall asleep, I usually have horrific nightmares. I am telling you all of this not for you to do something about it but so that you will understand my original question about relationships. What is a normal relationship, and how do I know it’s love?
ANSWER:
First, know with absolute certainty that you do have a lot to offer, even just by sharing authentically. It took a lot of courage for you to open up, and so many people can relate to you. Many others have asked for similar answers, so I thank you for your question.
Now, it is time you forced yourself to discover every wonderful quality you have from the inside out. Your worth is not determined by your weight or your teeth. All of this can be adjusted. You can get a dental bridge and have teeth. Some people are overweight due to thyroid problems, and they are just as worthy as people who are stick thin. This is a time to love yourself by discovering what you truly love, what you really want to express from within concerning your life purpose. These discoveries will help you to heal your self-degrading feelings. Take heart. I used to be the world’s biggest doormat. I had an unhappy childhood, failed relationships, and very low self-esteem. I had to discover my passion, find my value from the inside out, and express it as my joy-filled work each day in order to feel my value as an equal member of the human race.
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Us
Internal Revenue Service form 6252 records installment sales. An installment sale allows for a taxpayer to recognize income over a period of time as income is actually collected. Typically, this income will be long-term capital gain (property held for more than a year) and will yield the most favorable of tax rates, 5% or 15%. In addition to postponing the collection of income, the installment note will also have interest associated with the transaction giving the seller an additional financial benefit. Is the installment sale method always the best way to go? Of course not my friends. The one thing that we who practice tax have come to learn is never say always, and never say never.If I were to sell a capital asset (normally a piece of real estate or a business interest), I might consider the installment method of accounting for income tax purposes under the following two scenarios. Number one, if I am selling a business interest, I might have no choice but to hold paper (take back of a note) as the buyer may not be able to get adequate financing (beware of selling business interests and consult some one who knows). In the other instance, I might be fine finacially and have access to other larger blocks of funds and can afford to receive installments over time. By entering into an installment agreement, I will want to make sure that my note is properly secured in case the buyer defaults and I will want to review the possible income tax attributes.Suppose that our favorite taxpayer has a carryover of capital losses consisting of both long-term and short-term capital losses. In addition, this taxpayer has investment interest expenses that has been carried over for years because he has not had enough investment income to make use of the deduction. Our taxpayer friend wishes to sell a piece of land that will carry a significant long-term capital gain upon its sale. Upon studying the installment sale method, he decides to hold the note on the transaction and will charge the buyer 9% annual interest. If the note is for ten years, the taxpayer will report long-term capital gain income on the principal he receives from the note pa
QUESTION:
After 28 years in a dysfunctional marriage, I finally divorced my husband. That was 14 months ago. Now we are both changing and are back together, realizing that we both needed to change to become healthier people. With God’s blessings, hopefully, do you think we can become what we both need for ourselves and for one another?
ANSWER:
Absolutely! This is actually fantastic to hear. When two people love each other and realize that they both need to take personal responsibility to heal and evolve on all levels of personal growth, when each partner is committed to his own personal growth and supportive of his partner’s process, this is a gift.
Our greatest growth in relationships comes from being in relationships, not in isolation. Always share honestly. Always be true to self and have the courage to be real with your partner. You can never go wrong.
QUESTION:
How can you use your intuition to figure out where you should move to, to meet your partner, if you are currently single? I am going to move from the town I’ve been living in for 25 years and want to know how I can figure out where I should move to.
ANSWER:
Dear One, when you move to another town because you want to live there, to enhance your own life, and for no other reason, you will attract someone who is living his or her truth as well, rather than searching for a partner. The key here is in attracting by living your life for you rather than searching to fill a void. You will find that when you least expect it, someone who mirrors where you are within yourself will pop right into your life. So thrive and create the best life you can. Passionately fill your days and nights with all you love to do, and you will attract someone who is living his or her life that way, someone who will mirror you.
QUESTION:
How will I know when I am truly ready to be in a relationship, after not being in one for over eight years? I quit trying after my last relationship turned out to be just like my ex-husband, who was an alcoholic, used cocaine, and went into violent rages. I was severely abused by my natural father, sexually, emotionally, and physically . . . then sexually molested by my brother, brother-in-law, and stepfather (who also beat us). I know from counseling that my relationships with men were my way of trying to “fix” my father/male role models. I think I’m not ready to be in a relationship yet because I feel that I have nothing to offer. I am 200 lbs. overweight and have no teeth. I am also in severe pain most of the time because of fibromyalgia and lower back pain from a fall several years ago. To lose weight I need to exercise, but I am in so much pain that it’s almost impossible. I sometimes feel overwhelmed by all of this and discouraged, but I keep going. I am also an insomniac, and when I do happen to fall asleep, I usually have horrific nightmares. I am telling you all of this not for you to do something about it but so that you will understand my original question about relationships. What is a normal relationship, and how do I know it’s love?
ANSWER:
First, know with absolute certainty that you do have a lot to offer, even just by sharing authentically. It took a lot of courage for you to open up, and so many people can relate to you. Many others have asked for similar answers, so I thank you for your question.
Now, it is time you forced yourself to discover every wonderful quality you have from the inside out. Your worth is not determined by your weight or your teeth. All of this can be adjusted. You can get a dental bridge and have teeth. Some people are overweight due to thyroid problems, and they are just as worthy as people who are stick thin. This is a time to love yourself by discovering what you truly love, what you really want to express from within concerning your life purpose. These discoveries will help you to heal your self-degrading feelings. Take heart. I used to be the world’s biggest doormat. I had an unhappy childhood, failed relationships, and very low self-esteem. I had to discover my passion, find my value from the inside out, and express it as my joy-filled work each day in order to feel my value as an equal member of the human race.
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Us
I have been advising borrowers who need residential mortgage financing for over seventeen years. My experience shows that no matter how sharp, intelligent, smart, educated, or ignorant a borrower is -- the mortgage rate trap that they all fall into is the same. Unfortunately, by the time a borrower realizes that they have been misinformed, mislead, or just been given only part of the mortgage rate story; their inept, inexperienced, unknowledgeable, and eventually disinterested loan officer/customer service rep has earned an undeserved commission.How many times do I sit and answer my phone only to hear "Hi, I was referred to you by so and so, and uh, I'd just like to know, uh, what is your rate is today?" My mind races with "Are you in contract? How much are you looking to borrow? What is the size of your current mortgage? What is the purchase price? How is your credit? Can you verify income? Are you locking the rate? How long are you looking to lock the rate for? When are you looking to close? Do you own any other properties? Are you buying the property to live in or for an investment? What type of property are you buying?" You see, the answer to all theses pertinent questions (and more) EFFECTS THE RATE! This warrants repeating one more time -- the answer to all theses pertinent questions (and more) EFFECTS THE RATE! So, I say to the respective caller while qualifying my answer, "If you have good credit, can verify your income, intend to live in the property, and can show enough liquid assets to buy the property than the prevailing mortgage rate is X."Please understand, I do not blame borrowers for asking the question, BUT, I, as a mortgage professional, get frustrated seeing consumers, make the biggest financial decision of their life based on misleading advertisements and other information or lack thereof. The kicker is, that many mortgage companies' advertisements and customer representatives confuse and/or mislead the consumer into applying for a mortgage with their company while legally and ironically complying with the federal laws set up by our government to protect the consumer. When do
ANSWER:
Dear One, when you move to another town because you want to live there, to enhance your own life, and for no other reason, you will attract someone who is living his or her truth as well, rather than searching for a partner. The key here is in attracting by living your life for you rather than searching to fill a void. You will find that when you least expect it, someone who mirrors where you are within yourself will pop right into your life. So thrive and create the best life you can. Passionately fill your days and nights with all you love to do, and you will attract someone who is living his or her life that way, someone who will mirror you.
QUESTION:
How will I know when I am truly ready to be in a relationship, after not being in one for over eight years? I quit trying after my last relationship turned out to be just like my ex-husband, who was an alcoholic, used cocaine, and went into violent rages. I was severely abused by my natural father, sexually, emotionally, and physically . . . then sexually molested by my brother, brother-in-law, and stepfather (who also beat us). I know from counseling that my relationships with men were my way of trying to “fix” my father/male role models. I think I’m not ready to be in a relationship yet because I feel that I have nothing to offer. I am 200 lbs. overweight and have no teeth. I am also in severe pain most of the time because of fibromyalgia and lower back pain from a fall several years ago. To lose weight I need to exercise, but I am in so much pain that it’s almost impossible. I sometimes feel overwhelmed by all of this and discouraged, but I keep going. I am also an insomniac, and when I do happen to fall asleep, I usually have horrific nightmares. I am telling you all of this not for you to do something about it but so that you will understand my original question about relationships. What is a normal relationship, and how do I know it’s love?
ANSWER:
First, know with absolute certainty that you do have a lot to offer, even just by sharing authentically. It took a lot of courage for you to open up, and so many people can relate to you. Many others have asked for similar answers, so I thank you for your question.
Now, it is time you forced yourself to discover every wonderful quality you have from the inside out. Your worth is not determined by your weight or your teeth. All of this can be adjusted. You can get a dental bridge and have teeth. Some people are overweight due to thyroid problems, and they are just as worthy as people who are stick thin. This is a time to love yourself by discovering what you truly love, what you really want to express from within concerning your life purpose. These discoveries will help you to heal your self-degrading feelings. Take heart. I used to be the world’s biggest doormat. I had an unhappy childhood, failed relationships, and very low self-esteem. I had to discover my passion, find my value from the inside out, and express it as my joy-filled work each day in order to feel my value as an equal member of the human race.
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Us
While most of us tend to put off thinking about life insurance it is important that you make sure loved ones will be left financially secure in the event of your death – and the solution could be a whole life insurance policy.However, with so many different types of life assurance and life insurance, it is no wonder that people get confused as to what life insurance is and what the different types mean. Simply speaking, life insurance pays out a lump sum upon your death which will help your family continue to pay the bills and have a roof over their head.And if you are still not convinced about life insurance, digest the following - if you have a mortgage or rent to pay, a spouse or a partner and/ or dependants, then how would they cope if they suddenly did not have your salary to pay your bills? Would they be able to afford to keep a roof over their heads or carry on living the same lifestyle without your wage? And, most importantly, would you want them to have financial difficulty added to their grief?A life insurance – or life assurance - policy is the solution to this and can offer peace of mind that your financial affairs are in order in the event of your death.A Whole Life Insurance Policy is exactly what it says – you are insured for the whole of your life with the total sum assured being payable upon your death. There are various versions of Whole Life Policies - for example, some offer a ‘With Profits’ option where your dependants get the guaranteed sum insured upon your death plus bonuses.With a term life insurance policy you are insured for a set period of and if you die during the policy term, the insurer will pay out a lump sum. However, should you survive the policy term, the policy has no value whatsoever - it cannot be cashed in, nor can a claim cant be made after the end of the policy term.It is always a good idea to investigate the different types of life insurance available to ensure you get the level of cover you need.
ANSWER:
First, know with absolute certainty that you do have a lot to offer, even just by sharing authentically. It took a lot of courage for you to open up, and so many people can relate to you. Many others have asked for similar answers, so I thank you for your question.
Now, it is time you forced yourself to discover every wonderful quality you have from the inside out. Your worth is not determined by your weight or your teeth. All of this can be adjusted. You can get a dental bridge and have teeth. Some people are overweight due to thyroid problems, and they are just as worthy as people who are stick thin. This is a time to love yourself by discovering what you truly love, what you really want to express from within concerning your life purpose. These discoveries will help you to heal your self-degrading feelings. Take heart. I used to be the world’s biggest doormat. I had an unhappy childhood, failed relationships, and very low self-esteem. I had to discover my passion, find my value from the inside out, and express it as my joy-filled work each day in order to feel my value as an equal member of the human race.
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Us
Eight people are competing for a chance to run for president. Six of them fit the traditional profile of former contestants. White, male, in their fifties, businessmen or lawyers, been involved in politics for a while.However, most debate is currently being generated by the remaining two. A woman and a black man. One a former first lady with a number of years in front of the press and the people and the other a relative novice in Washington, with excellent oratory skills and a last name generates a lot of questions.We are not sure who will be president. One thing is for sure, America is presented with the opportunity for a change. Who will they choose?A year ago, I would have said that the next elections will bring about a change in guard at the White House. I was certain that the Republicans were on their way out. Not anymore. The person at the helm is not chosen merely on qualifications and potential. They need votes. While most people would not have a problem with a woman president or for that matter a black president, most people don’t vote. Therein lies the difference. More people vote for the future American Idol than for the future president.Voting banks consist of conservatives, liberals and people in between. Conservatives tend to vote for republicans and liberals tend to vote for democrats. The decider votes come from the people in between. They tend to be conservative with liberal values. Nobody knows which way they will go, and there lies the risk for the democrats.So, the question that comes to mind is: Are the democrats shooting themselves in the foot? Will Hillary or Obama end up becoming a secret weapon for the republicans or are they the change America needs?
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Usually, our greatest challenges lead to our greatest life purpose fulfilled.
You do have a special purpose. And you are a special human being. Look into your heart to discover what really matters to you. Then bring it out into your life as your work. Being an example stems from your heart, not from your looks. You will attract a wonderful man into your life once you discover and believe that you are wonderful.
QUESTION:
Is unconditional love possible between two persons in a relationship?
ANSWER:
Yes, as long as they both love themselves unconditionally, without self-judgment, self-criticism, or self-abuse of any kind. You can only give what you have on the inside.
QUESTION:
How can I help myself to recognize the “one” that I am supposed to spend my life with?
ANSWER:
When you can be your authentic self in every way with that person, when you treat each other equally and beautifully, love each other’s company, communicate openly and honestly, share similar values, respect each other on all levels without ever compromising your truths, and have wonderful chemistry and passion in bed, then you will recognize that you have found “the one” for you.
QUESTION:
Is there a soul mate for each person?
ANSWER:
Yes, but not every person meets a soul mate in this lifetime. Many people have soul agreements to work out karma from previous lives together or to support each other in this life. We also may experience a soul level recognition with many people in our lives, such as with our best friends or relatives.
A soul mate relationship is not always a bed of roses. It can be one of the most growth-filled and transformative relationships we ever have; and it may or may not last for the remainder of this life, although it serves a deeply important purpose for individual growth.
If you want to attract a wonderful match or spiritual partner, grow to love yourself deeply with genuine appreciation for the person you are. Shine and express all that you came into this life to be and express. You will certainly and naturally attract a wonderful counterpart who will mirror your highest level of growth, and you can share an astounding relationship with that person as your equal on all levels.
There is no “perfect” person. Thinking of a soul mate as such is a myth. But you can attract an incredible person into your life once you become the incredible person you came into this life to be and express on all levels.
QUESTION:
Why must we be prepared to accept that some wonderful relationships, even of soul mates, are destined to end? Phrased differently, how can we know if a sacred contract is going to result in a relationship ending? How can we carry love forward from that point?
ANSWER:
We cannot hold on to another person for dear life. We never know if suddenly a person is going to be out of our lives. The most important thing is to be and share your greatest self with the one you love, and create the most joy-filled life possible each moment you are fortunate to experience love with another. Life is filled with constant change. Love with all of your heart, share all of who you are, do your best, be your best, express your truth, and always allow the other person the same freedom of being and expression. There are no guarantees in life, but loving fully and purely is one of the most rewarding experiences of life on earth.
QUESTION:
How will I ever feel that I can trust enough and become vulnerable enough to be emotionally intimate with someone without giving away my power?
ANSWER:
The only way you can ever trust another is to first trust yourself, your feelings, your instincts—and listen to them. Then a person can earn your trust over time and through many small experiences. Notice what you instinctively pick up on. Watch to see if the person’s words and actions match. Don’t just give all of your trust to others without getting to know them over time.
When people show you that they can be counted on by following through on what they say and by sharing themselves, you can slowly open up and share yourself. You can share your truth and be emotionally intimate by standing in your truth, regardless of what they do or say.
Never back out of what is true for you to please another person—that is giving away your power.
QUESTION:
How do you change someone’s belief system?
ANSWER:
You don’t. Ever.
Would you like it if someone tried to change your belief system?
You must respect all human beings enough to allow them to be who they are, even if you have different preferences or beliefs. You are not on this earth to change your belief system to please any other person. Therefore, no other person is on this earth to change his or her belief system to please you.
QUESTION:
Sometimes you can be in a dating relationship and it can be great, and then you get a vibe that the partner is not 100 percent there, as they once were. Immediately, women in general start to analyze: “Why didn’t he call me? He always calls me at this time. What does that mean?” Then women start to doubt themselves, overanalyze, and wind up making it worse. Women then say: “Well, if he’s not calling me, I’m not going to call him.” And they start giving out weird vibes and all turns to dust.
When you are feeling doubt in a relationship that once was strong, what do you do? How do you address it?
ANSWER:
The best thing to do is to get super absorbed in your life, your purpose, and allow the other person his or her space. Then, when you do speak, you can make plans to laugh and have a blast for the next time you get together.
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