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    find you? Why did he start to find a wife abroad? Did you talk about it?

    - Yes, we did. And he told me that he was married with an AW and she was 15 years elder than him. Then he realized that he can’t have normal relationships with AW. He did not look for especially RW, just another nationality. And European preferably. And he found the “ChanceForLove” Agency and found me there! Thank you very much!

    - Thank you for the interview. Finally I’d like you to give some recommendations to those men, who are looking for their Russian brides.

    - Well, the first that I want to say about it is that you need to choose a woman of your age. If a 50 y.o. man would choose 20 y.o. girl, it’s not right. You just can’t have mutual interests because both of us were grown up in different time. You will not listen to the same music. And you have different cultures. What can be mutual between a 50 y.o. man and a 20 y.o. girl? We have the same thoughts about it with Kevin. He says: “such a man will buy a wife for himself but she will not love him. She can respect, but most likely she will divorce you in a couple of years. As soon as she will feel her independence”. Men do not take this into consideration. And it’s also important that the woman is to be equal to your intellect.

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    Today I’d like to introduce you with Elena Davis. She married our client Kevin two years ago. Elena came back to her Motherland, to Kazan for the first time and she has a lot of stories!

    But we decided to ask her how it is to be a wife of an American. Maybe the same will tell you your bride after she’s been married you after two years. But why wait for so long time? Let’s learn the future.

    - Lena, what did you expect from America?

    - Well, I’d read a lot about it. I knew that American Men (AM) are family oriented and love children very much. When I came there I could appreciate it. I can tell that American Men are our mothers and American Women are our fathers.

    - ???

    - Their mothers can desert their children and leave them to their husbands and to become married again for 5 times more. And it’s normal for them! I can understand them now, but I do not excuse them. They think that they do take care about their children because usually their fathers have more income and so, it would be better for children to live with fathers. It can’t not to shock a Russian Woman, who would never leave her children. And it’s another advantage of AM. They love their children a lot! To our measures they do not breed them: do not pull them about, don’t teach moral every 3 seconds. And the children look at behavior of the adults and adopt their experience. It’s unusual for us.

    - Then why do American Women give birth to their baby so late?

    - Well, in first, they make their career. In second, the woman of every age is a woman there. She can marry both in 50 and 60 years old and even to a man who is much younger than they are. In Russia if a woman is not married by 35 years old then everybody feel sorry about her and think that her life is not good. And Kevin always says me that “our women become blossom after they are 40 years old”. And I can see it by the American Woman I’m surrounded with.

    - What does it mean to be an American wife?

    - I consider myself more as Russian wife of the American Man!:))). American women do not cook, do not wash their husbands’ cloth. They are fully self-served. I don’t know why they need a man at all! They say in Russia – that a husband is the second child. And an American woman says: “He wants me to be his mother! No way!”. About treatment to woman: the Russian Women (RW) have such a pathologic fear that their husband will leave them. In America the men fear the same. Kevin always asks me “Will you leave me?” and I say “Why I have to leave you?” I don’t understand why he asks that.:)) If I have a bad mood he looks for the cause in himself and if we quarrel he asks me to forgive him. But why? If that was my fault! I’ve been shocked with such a treatment to a woman. You may live with American men, of course.

    - And they say that Americans are like Russians.

    - No, it’s a delusion. We have too less in common. All is topsy-turvy. And it’s difficult to accept that. I came there as deaf and dumb because I did not know English and all is different moreover! Different measures and weights. I wonder why we have an identical time? I cannot get used to their measures. I have a huge experience of life but it does not work there! I don’t know anything and depend on Kevin. Well, I don’t like it very much. I’m here as an alien from other planet – I’m a person from Russia. Americans are very solitary people. Of course, AM differs from RM a lot. They say that RM are more romantic. Maybe… but if the relationships are to become serious, AM are more safe. They treat everything more seriously. They love their families very much and have panic fear to divorce. And that’s because of their Laws; a woman can take half of the property.

    - Why, is there lack of women? Why they come to us?

    - I can tell you that. Do you want to know the truth?

    - Yes!

    - But it’s not sweet enough. When I came there I understood (as all other RW) that we do not have any advantage! We are just immigrants there, as Philippine. By the way, there are a lot of them there. They like to marry us because of our resignation. And everybody in Russia thinks that we are a great nation and great culture, but we are the one of the third countries. So why they marry us? They just tired from AW, from their power. AW can offend a man and wipe their feet about the men. Once at my work I had a talk with AW. One of them, a mother of 3 children, divorced, said: “Can you imagine, he wanted me to be his mother! So I would cook for him and put his cloth together. See! I have 3 children and that’s enough for me to cook for them!”. And I think that if you cook for them, why can’t you cook also for your husband?!:)

    I was shocked. I wanted to ask her but I didn’t want to quarrel with her. But one day I said that our women do all these for their man! And she said one thing that I didn’t wait to hear: are your men lazy? Not that AW are bad housewives but that our men are lazy. So, they have such a treatment to the men. I consider that a normal man wants to be the main in a family; he wants to take some decisions. Am I right? And if to press on him, then of course he will look for another woman. A mans who had a deal with RW wants only Russian wife.

    - How did the Kevin find you? Why did he start to find a wife abroad? Did you talk about it?

    - Yes, we did. And he told me that he was married with an AW and she was 15 years elder than him. Then he realized that he can’t have normal relationships with AW. He did not look for especially RW, just another nationality. And European preferably. And he found the “ChanceForLove” Agency and found me there! Thank you very much!

    - Thank you for the interview. Finally I’d like you to give some recommendations to those men, who are looking for their Russian brides.

    - Well, the first that I want to say about it is that you need to choose a woman of your age. If a 50 y.o. man would choose 20 y.o. girl, it’s not right. You just can’t have mutual interests because both of us were grown up in different time. You will not listen to the same music. And you have different cultures. What can be mutual between a 50 y.o. man and a 20 y.o. girl? We have the same thoughts about it with Kevin. He says: “such a man will buy a wife for himself but she will not love him. She can respect, but most likely she will divorce you in a couple of years. As soon as she will feel her independence”. Men do not take this into consideration. And it’s also important that the woman is to be equal to your intellect.

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    - Then why do American Women give birth to their baby so late?

    - Well, in first, they make their career. In second, the woman of every age is a woman there. She can marry both in 50 and 60 years old and even to a man who is much younger than they are. In Russia if a woman is not married by 35 years old then everybody feel sorry about her and think that her life is not good. And Kevin always says me that “our women become blossom after they are 40 years old”. And I can see it by the American Woman I’m surrounded with.

    - What does it mean to be an American wife?

    - I consider myself more as Russian wife of the American Man!:))). American women do not cook, do not wash their husbands’ cloth. They are fully self-served. I don’t know why they need a man at all! They say in Russia – that a husband is the second child. And an American woman says: “He wants me to be his mother! No way!”. About treatment to woman: the Russian Women (RW) have such a pathologic fear that their husband will leave them. In America the men fear the same. Kevin always asks me “Will you leave me?” and I say “Why I have to leave you?” I don’t understand why he asks that.:)) If I have a bad mood he looks for the cause in himself and if we quarrel he asks me to forgive him. But why? If that was my fault! I’ve been shocked with such a treatment to a woman. You may live with American men, of course.

    - And they say that Americans are like Russians.

    - No, it’s a delusion. We have too less in common. All is topsy-turvy. And it’s difficult to accept that. I came there as deaf and dumb because I did not know English and all is different moreover! Different measures and weights. I wonder why we have an identical time? I cannot get used to their measures. I have a huge experience of life but it does not work there! I don’t know anything and depend on Kevin. Well, I don’t like it very much. I’m here as an alien from other planet – I’m a person from Russia. Americans are very solitary people. Of course, AM differs from RM a lot. They say that RM are more romantic. Maybe… but if the relationships are to become serious, AM are more safe. They treat everything more seriously. They love their families very much and have panic fear to divorce. And that’s because of their Laws; a woman can take half of the property.

    - Why, is there lack of women? Why they come to us?

    - I can tell you that. Do you want to know the truth?

    - Yes!

    - But it’s not sweet enough. When I came there I understood (as all other RW) that we do not have any advantage! We are just immigrants there, as Philippine. By the way, there are a lot of them there. They like to marry us because of our resignation. And everybody in Russia thinks that we are a great nation and great culture, but we are the one of the third countries. So why they marry us? They just tired from AW, from their power. AW can offend a man and wipe their feet about the men. Once at my work I had a talk with AW. One of them, a mother of 3 children, divorced, said: “Can you imagine, he wanted me to be his mother! So I would cook for him and put his cloth together. See! I have 3 children and that’s enough for me to cook for them!”. And I think that if you cook for them, why can’t you cook also for your husband?!:)

    I was shocked. I wanted to ask her but I didn’t want to quarrel with her. But one day I said that our women do all these for their man! And she said one thing that I didn’t wait to hear: are your men lazy? Not that AW are bad housewives but that our men are lazy. So, they have such a treatment to the men. I consider that a normal man wants to be the main in a family; he wants to take some decisions. Am I right? And if to press on him, then of course he will look for another woman. A mans who had a deal with RW wants only Russian wife.

    - How did the Kevin find you? Why did he start to find a wife abroad? Did you talk about it?

    - Yes, we did. And he told me that he was married with an AW and she was 15 years elder than him. Then he realized that he can’t have normal relationships with AW. He did not look for especially RW, just another nationality. And European preferably. And he found the “ChanceForLove” Agency and found me there! Thank you very much!

    - Thank you for the interview. Finally I’d like you to give some recommendations to those men, who are looking for their Russian brides.

    - Well, the first that I want to say about it is that you need to choose a woman of your age. If a 50 y.o. man would choose 20 y.o. girl, it’s not right. You just can’t have mutual interests because both of us were grown up in different time. You will not listen to the same music. And you have different cultures. What can be mutual between a 50 y.o. man and a 20 y.o. girl? We have the same thoughts about it with Kevin. He says: “such a man will buy a wife for himself but she will not love him. She can respect, but most likely she will divorce you in a couple of years. As soon as she will feel her independence”. Men do not take this into consideration. And it’s also important that the woman is to be equal to your intellect.

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    - And they say that Americans are like Russians.

    - No, it’s a delusion. We have too less in common. All is topsy-turvy. And it’s difficult to accept that. I came there as deaf and dumb because I did not know English and all is different moreover! Different measures and weights. I wonder why we have an identical time? I cannot get used to their measures. I have a huge experience of life but it does not work there! I don’t know anything and depend on Kevin. Well, I don’t like it very much. I’m here as an alien from other planet – I’m a person from Russia. Americans are very solitary people. Of course, AM differs from RM a lot. They say that RM are more romantic. Maybe… but if the relationships are to become serious, AM are more safe. They treat everything more seriously. They love their families very much and have panic fear to divorce. And that’s because of their Laws; a woman can take half of the property.

    - Why, is there lack of women? Why they come to us?

    - I can tell you that. Do you want to know the truth?

    - Yes!

    - But it’s not sweet enough. When I came there I understood (as all other RW) that we do not have any advantage! We are just immigrants there, as Philippine. By the way, there are a lot of them there. They like to marry us because of our resignation. And everybody in Russia thinks that we are a great nation and great culture, but we are the one of the third countries. So why they marry us? They just tired from AW, from their power. AW can offend a man and wipe their feet about the men. Once at my work I had a talk with AW. One of them, a mother of 3 children, divorced, said: “Can you imagine, he wanted me to be his mother! So I would cook for him and put his cloth together. See! I have 3 children and that’s enough for me to cook for them!”. And I think that if you cook for them, why can’t you cook also for your husband?!:)

    I was shocked. I wanted to ask her but I didn’t want to quarrel with her. But one day I said that our women do all these for their man! And she said one thing that I didn’t wait to hear: are your men lazy? Not that AW are bad housewives but that our men are lazy. So, they have such a treatment to the men. I consider that a normal man wants to be the main in a family; he wants to take some decisions. Am I right? And if to press on him, then of course he will look for another woman. A mans who had a deal with RW wants only Russian wife.

    - How did the Kevin find you? Why did he start to find a wife abroad? Did you talk about it?

    - Yes, we did. And he told me that he was married with an AW and she was 15 years elder than him. Then he realized that he can’t have normal relationships with AW. He did not look for especially RW, just another nationality. And European preferably. And he found the “ChanceForLove” Agency and found me there! Thank you very much!

    - Thank you for the interview. Finally I’d like you to give some recommendations to those men, who are looking for their Russian brides.

    - Well, the first that I want to say about it is that you need to choose a woman of your age. If a 50 y.o. man would choose 20 y.o. girl, it’s not right. You just can’t have mutual interests because both of us were grown up in different time. You will not listen to the same music. And you have different cultures. What can be mutual between a 50 y.o. man and a 20 y.o. girl? We have the same thoughts about it with Kevin. He says: “such a man will buy a wife for himself but she will not love him. She can respect, but most likely she will divorce you in a couple of years. As soon as she will feel her independence”. Men do not take this into consideration. And it’s also important that the woman is to be equal to your intellect.

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    I was shocked. I wanted to ask her but I didn’t want to quarrel with her. But one day I said that our women do all these for their man! And she said one thing that I didn’t wait to hear: are your men lazy? Not that AW are bad housewives but that our men are lazy. So, they have such a treatment to the men. I consider that a normal man wants to be the main in a family; he wants to take some decisions. Am I right? And if to press on him, then of course he will look for another woman. A mans who had a deal with RW wants only Russian wife.

    - How did the Kevin find you? Why did he start to find a wife abroad? Did you talk about it?

    - Yes, we did. And he told me that he was married with an AW and she was 15 years elder than him. Then he realized that he can’t have normal relationships with AW. He did not look for especially RW, just another nationality. And European preferably. And he found the “ChanceForLove” Agency and found me there! Thank you very much!

    - Thank you for the interview. Finally I’d like you to give some recommendations to those men, who are looking for their Russian brides.

    - Well, the first that I want to say about it is that you need to choose a woman of your age. If a 50 y.o. man would choose 20 y.o. girl, it’s not right. You just can’t have mutual interests because both of us were grown up in different time. You will not listen to the same music. And you have different cultures. What can be mutual between a 50 y.o. man and a 20 y.o. girl? We have the same thoughts about it with Kevin. He says: “such a man will buy a wife for himself but she will not love him. She can respect, but most likely she will divorce you in a couple of years. As soon as she will feel her independence”. Men do not take this into consideration. And it’s also important that the woman is to be equal to your intellect.

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    find you? Why did he start to find a wife abroad? Did you talk about it?

    - Yes, we did. And he told me that he was married with an AW and she was 15 years elder than him. Then he realized that he can’t have normal relationships with AW. He did not look for especially RW, just another nationality. And European preferably. And he found the “ChanceForLove” Agency and found me there! Thank you very much!

    - Thank you for the interview. Finally I’d like you to give some recommendations to those men, who are looking for their Russian brides.

    - Well, the first that I want to say about it is that you need to choose a woman of your age. If a 50 y.o. man would choose 20 y.o. girl, it’s not right. You just can’t have mutual interests because both of us were grown up in different time. You will not listen to the same music. And you have different cultures. What can be mutual between a 50 y.o. man and a 20 y.o. girl? We have the same thoughts about it with Kevin. He says: “such a man will buy a wife for himself but she will not love him. She can respect, but most likely she will divorce you in a couple of years. As soon as she will feel her independence”. Men do not take this into consideration. And it’s also important that the woman is to be equal to your intellect.

    If you do not have a high degree and you take a woman with 2 degrees, then most likely they will not live together for a long time. Because it would not be interesting for such a woman to live with such a man and they will divorce in future. I can see that men do not count their steps for future. Maybe they think that if they marry her then she’ll be thankful to him all her life? No, no way. Our women are steadfast and assured. They will adapt a little bit and will rule everything. And she will not live with him but she’ll find a good job. It’s the same as we have: you need to choose similar to you person, with whom you’ll have mutual interest.

    - And what about the exterior?

    - It’s important, of course. Because we choose the people looking at them. But what then? AM, always remember that RW are very intellectual. Yes, we come as children the first time. We are helpless in everything! But time pass and we become equal. Will the relationships change then? You need to think about it always.

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