Ladies: If you find yourself in this situation where you have become the provider, show more, and not less, affection. Be nice but not condescending; rearrange priorities so he can feel that he is still the family’s bread-winner. For example, let him pay for the food and house, whereas you pay for nicer car, remodeling, vacations, etc.

Gents: Though it is easier said than done, try not to feel displaced. You indeed are very important. Take time off for yourself and do what you l

"A man's got to do what a man's got to do. A woman must do what he can't." ~ Rhonda Hansome

"Behind every successful man is a surprised woman." ~ Maryon Pearson

"The most important thing that happened to women when they stood up for their rights was that they lost seats in the buses." ~ Anon

"Remember, Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, but she did it backwards and in high heels."~ Faith Whittlesey

This power struggle is a turn off. I have heard it many times from different men. Why do we always want to prove to men that we are smarter, tough, and independent? Why keep score? We are driving men away. We have already shown them that we can, so now we need to back off. Many of us go to the extreme of putting men off in public, as if doing it in private was not bad enough. We also tend to disagree with them whenever they say something.

Some men are usually not intimated by women who make more money and/or are more successful professionally; however, when face with this type of situation many men are losing their pride and self-confidence.

The fact that women are being hired above men is an extra aggravation; after all, men like to be the providers and protectors. This is their make-up. They have been doing this for thousands of years. When men lose their most fundamental role, then, what is left for them?

The fact is that men are not being taught to compete against women. Except for sports, which is consider a given, men don’t know how to deal with this competition zeal. What is happening today is that we have created a society that is woman friendly in detriment of men, who have come to be despised because of their masculinity. In other words, we are regarding men as the enemy.

This is a tough situation. And since we already proved that we can do it, why not let it go? There is no need to keep the competition going on forever. Enough, ladies!

A Word of Advice Ladies: If you find yourself in this situation where you have become the provider, show more, and not less, affection. Be nice but not condescending; rearrange priorities so he can feel that he is still the family’s bread-winner. For example, let him pay for the food and house, whereas you pay for nicer car, remodeling, vacations, etc.

Gents: Though it is easier said than done, try not to feel displaced. You indeed are very important. Take time off for yourself and do what you lo

many times from different men. Why do we always want to prove to men that we are smarter, tough, and independent? Why keep score? We are driving men away. We have already shown them that we can, so now we need to back off. Many of us go to the extreme of putting men off in public, as if doing it in private was not bad enough. We also tend to disagree with them whenever they say something.

Some men are usually not intimated by women who make more money and/or are more successful professionally; however, when face with this type of situation many men are losing their pride and self-confidence.

The fact that women are being hired above men is an extra aggravation; after all, men like to be the providers and protectors. This is their make-up. They have been doing this for thousands of years. When men lose their most fundamental role, then, what is left for them?

The fact is that men are not being taught to compete against women. Except for sports, which is consider a given, men don’t know how to deal with this competition zeal. What is happening today is that we have created a society that is woman friendly in detriment of men, who have come to be despised because of their masculinity. In other words, we are regarding men as the enemy.

This is a tough situation. And since we already proved that we can do it, why not let it go? There is no need to keep the competition going on forever. Enough, ladies!

A Word of Advice Ladies: If you find yourself in this situation where you have become the provider, show more, and not less, affection. Be nice but not condescending; rearrange priorities so he can feel that he is still the family’s bread-winner. For example, let him pay for the food and house, whereas you pay for nicer car, remodeling, vacations, etc.

Gents: Though it is easier said than done, try not to feel displaced. You indeed are very important. Take time off for yourself and do what you l

professionally; however, when face with this type of situation many men are losing their pride and self-confidence.

The fact that women are being hired above men is an extra aggravation; after all, men like to be the providers and protectors. This is their make-up. They have been doing this for thousands of years. When men lose their most fundamental role, then, what is left for them?

The fact is that men are not being taught to compete against women. Except for sports, which is consider a given, men don’t know how to deal with this competition zeal. What is happening today is that we have created a society that is woman friendly in detriment of men, who have come to be despised because of their masculinity. In other words, we are regarding men as the enemy.

This is a tough situation. And since we already proved that we can do it, why not let it go? There is no need to keep the competition going on forever. Enough, ladies!

A Word of Advice Ladies: If you find yourself in this situation where you have become the provider, show more, and not less, affection. Be nice but not condescending; rearrange priorities so he can feel that he is still the family’s bread-winner. For example, let him pay for the food and house, whereas you pay for nicer car, remodeling, vacations, etc.

Gents: Though it is easier said than done, try not to feel displaced. You indeed are very important. Take time off for yourself and do what you l

ch is consider a given, men don’t know how to deal with this competition zeal. What is happening today is that we have created a society that is woman friendly in detriment of men, who have come to be despised because of their masculinity. In other words, we are regarding men as the enemy.

This is a tough situation. And since we already proved that we can do it, why not let it go? There is no need to keep the competition going on forever. Enough, ladies!

A Word of Advice Ladies: If you find yourself in this situation where you have become the provider, show more, and not less, affection. Be nice but not condescending; rearrange priorities so he can feel that he is still the family’s bread-winner. For example, let him pay for the food and house, whereas you pay for nicer car, remodeling, vacations, etc.

Gents: Though it is easier said than done, try not to feel displaced. You indeed are very important. Take time off for yourself and do what you l

Ladies: If you find yourself in this situation where you have become the provider, show more, and not less, affection. Be nice but not condescending; rearrange priorities so he can feel that he is still the family’s bread-winner. For example, let him pay for the food and house, whereas you pay for nicer car, remodeling, vacations, etc.

Gents: Though it is easier said than done, try not to feel displaced. You indeed are very important. Take time off for yourself and do what you love to do; perhaps start a new hobby or something that really makes you proud. And, in the words of W.C. Fields, "If at first you don’t succeed, try and try again. Then give up. No use to being a damned fool about it." Go have some fun!